I felt that way before kids. Maybe I will again when I have an empty nest. |
Wow, we have very different world views, I hire out all these chores. |
Because I don’t enjoy grocery shopping and would prefer spending my time doing something else. |
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Because we would both rather be spending time with our kids? I'm not saying we don't grocery shop in store, we do 75% of the time. But if spouse is at work (they have a 10 hour day with commute) and I need milk, I'm not hauling all three kids on an hour long trip to the grocery store. This is the benefit of being me in 2024 and not my grandmother in 1954. |
Sure. But it also takes 5 mins for your spouse to hop into 7/11 or the grocery store for milk on the way home. Weird to Instacart. |
And it's it's 11 am and my baby needs milk before her nap and my spouse won't be home till 7 pm? Wtf do you care? |
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I have noticed my really affluent 35-55 year old social circle don’t grocery shop anymore. It’s almost like a prole signal if you do your own grocery shopping. I think even if they’re not super busy, the rich (and strivers who try to emulate the rich) like to make it seem like they are too busy and ‘above’ wasting time in a grocery store.
Grocery store shoppers APPEAR to be less affluent and older these days. Just something I’ve noticed when looking around. |
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I hate grocery shopping, but the one time I tried grocery delivery years ago, most of the food was about to expire. From what I have heard, they often do not bring you everything you want. So if I have to go to the store anyways, why spend time ordering to have only some of it delivered? It also does not avoid the second part I hate - putting the food away.
But I do not get the hatred of others using grocery delivery. If it works for some people, that is great. And I had to laugh at “why not send your partner.” Look - for those of you that have a partner capable of getting what you ask for, good for you, but my husband will mess up the simplest of requests. I almost think he has to be trying to mess it up. |
| I stopped tired of tipping, only when we go on Vacation and wants groceries waiting for us |
Insignificant sums to the rich who can make $1000 an hour or $10,000 off a single surgery or six figure bonus or commission — and passive money while they sleep. |
Well I hope you also did your own childcare too because your kids are more important than the menial sad sack tasks you’re congratulating yourself for doing. |
Some people get off by judging others. |
| Always and haven’t been in a grocery store for years to do a full shopping. Cannot stand it. We tip well and I find it a wonderful luxury to be able to avoid the store. |
| Once a week and delivery is free people. |