Friends with exes (no kids involved)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn’t be too comfortable if my boyfriend was still actively communicating w/his ex.

Even on holidays, etc.

The point here is that yes, they were friends before & may be now but they also were lovers as well.
So it is just inappropriate + disrespectful of him to still be in contact w/her for that and that alone.

If it makes you feel uncomfortable then if he cares about your feelings he will cut everything off completely for the sake of your happiness.

And if he does not >> then he is definitely not the right person for you. 💔

Good luck.

A lot of people (men and women) like to keep hard-and-fast rules when it comes to human interactions. Many people like to find ways out of silly rules. That is part of being a human being — and liking puzzles! If you put if you put a puzzle or challenge in front in front of me —with some elusive goal, I will find a way to “solve it. “

Well, that sounds like a great way to earn the trust & respect of your partner.

[Anonymous]

Surprised no one has said it but the problem is they broke up for reasons that had nothing to do with the relationship itself. They would make me nervous. It sounds like they are a good fit bit for the religion thing. Sometimes that truly is an insurmountable issue and sometimes people figure it out. I’d wonder if they are eventually going to figure it out if they like each other that much.