Do you let your 13 year old use Uber Teen?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:At the risk of sounding sexist, is your child a boy or girl? I say this because I have a very mature 14 year old boy who looks like he’s 16 and he rides Uber teen in the day ( we haven’t done it at night yet). But there’s no way I’d let my more immature daughter who is 13, but looks 11, in a car with a stranger. The odds of getting sexually abused or anything going wrong would be higher in her case.

It’s not sexist. I’m a PP and said I let my son take it in middle school. He was big at 13 and now at 15 he's taller and bigger than DH. He looks like a grown man. I wouldn’t feel comfortable with my tiny 5’2 daughter alone in an Uber.

This is not sexist. My 14yo is 5’8” and taller than me (mom). I just started letting him take an Uber.

I have 3 kids. I’m not a single mom but Dh has a demanding job. I am often solo and with 3 kids who have to be at different places. When my youngest was younger, I had a sitter stay home with youngest while I drove older kids. Now my kids are old enough that I can leave my youngest with my middle or oldest child while I drive other kid.

My 14yo only recently started having activities ending so late in high school. Previously everything ended at a decent time. If your kid regularly ends at 10pm, this schedule does not work for your family. Ask your ex to help drive, get a sitter or carpool.

[Anonymous]

Yes, we do. My 16 year old has Teen Uber. I am a single mom of 3. You gotta do what you gotta do.
It's not often, but when I have to run a few kids around in different directions and we can't find a carpool or a sitter, Teen Uber works and I watch them get there safely.
We live in the suburbs and the furthest I've used it is for a 10 min trip. The Uber driver is often the same guy and he has stories about moms putting their kids in the car for elementary school drop-offs because they just don't want to drive the 3 miles.
It's out of necessity that I use it, but I know the driver now and I feel that once every few months when I need to, it's fine.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:At the risk of sounding sexist, is your child a boy or girl? I say this because I have a very mature 14 year old boy who looks like he’s 16 and he rides Uber teen in the day ( we haven’t done it at night yet). But there’s no way I’d let my more immature daughter who is 13, but looks 11, in a car with a stranger. The odds of getting sexually abused or anything going wrong would be higher in her case.

It’s not sexist. I’m a PP and said I let my son take it in middle school. He was big at 13 and now at 15 he's taller and bigger than DH. He looks like a grown man. I wouldn’t feel comfortable with my tiny 5’2 daughter alone in an Uber.

This is not sexist. My 14yo is 5’8” and taller than me (mom). I just started letting him take an Uber.

I have 3 kids. I’m not a single mom but Dh has a demanding job. I am often solo and with 3 kids who have to be at different places. When my youngest was younger, I had a sitter stay home with youngest while I drove older kids. Now my kids are old enough that I can leave my youngest with my middle or oldest child while I drive other kid.

My 14yo only recently started having activities ending so late in high school. Previously everything ended at a decent time. If your kid regularly ends at 10pm, this schedule does not work for your family. Ask your ex to help drive, get a sitter or carpool.

There is no reason why you or your husband cannot pick up your kids or get a sitter.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'd say the answer is I wouldn't purposely choose to let my child do an activity that ends around 10.

I'm pretty annoyed our child's sport does end around 10 a few times a week due to location rental. It really screws with their sleep schedule to get home, unwind, sometimes finish homework and eat.

DC's friend is the same age and takes Ubers regularly from an activity but it's a different activity that ends a couple hours earlier.

I'm confused. Your child's activity ends at 10, and you're judging me for having my child in an activity that ends at 10?

Maybe the PP decided to not have another baby when she already had a teen. Huge difference

I didn’t have a teen two years ago.

Your older kids would be teens at some point. What did you expect? Take the baby and get your kid.

[Anonymous]

The answer is no to activity. Unless your ex can step up and help drive or you can get a sitter, the answer would be no to activity.

My kid wanted to join this activity and team that was far and inconvenient and I knew we would have multiple conflicts with his siblings. I signed him up after he begged me. His friends drove him to and from most of the time. I host the most play dates and hang outs so I guess other families didn’t mind driving my kid. The one family who never ever hosts anyone is surprisingly very willing to drive my kid around.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:At the risk of sounding sexist, is your child a boy or girl? I say this because I have a very mature 14 year old boy who looks like he’s 16 and he rides Uber teen in the day ( we haven’t done it at night yet). But there’s no way I’d let my more immature daughter who is 13, but looks 11, in a car with a stranger. The odds of getting sexually abused or anything going wrong would be higher in her case.

It’s not sexist. I’m a PP and said I let my son take it in middle school. He was big at 13 and now at 15 he's taller and bigger than DH. He looks like a grown man. I wouldn’t feel comfortable with my tiny 5’2 daughter alone in an Uber.

This is not sexist. My 14yo is 5’8” and taller than me (mom). I just started letting him take an Uber.

I have 3 kids. I’m not a single mom but Dh has a demanding job. I am often solo and with 3 kids who have to be at different places. When my youngest was younger, I had a sitter stay home with youngest while I drove older kids. Now my kids are old enough that I can leave my youngest with my middle or oldest child while I drive other kid.

My 14yo only recently started having activities ending so late in high school. Previously everything ended at a decent time. If your kid regularly ends at 10pm, this schedule does not work for your family. Ask your ex to help drive, get a sitter or carpool.

There is no reason why you or your husband cannot pick up your kids or get a sitter.

Pp here. Yes, my husband and I can pick up my kid. I have a husband and two kids who are old enough to stay home alone with youngest 6yo. My 6yo goes in the car sleepy to pick up older siblings sometimes but usually Dh or one older kid can be home with her.

In OP’s situation, I would tell my kid no to activity. 30 min at 10pm is really inconvenient.

[Anonymous]

To chime in.

Probably not just get if it is a daughter. 14 or 15 definitely yes.

Ok if son.

If daughter is super confident, then maybe.