Saw friend's DH kissing another woman at a party

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Cocktail party in our neighborhood last night. I went to the bathroom. Saw him in the hallway with a woman who I recognized from our neighborhood. He seemed drunk and so did she. My husband wants me to say nothing. WTF. I thought this only happened in cheesy 1970s movies.

Why wasn’t your friend at this party with her husband?

If he wasn’t there alone, he wouldn’t have been kissing that hussy.

Why do you assume she was elsewhere?

Do you stay glued to your spouse at parties?
That would be very middle school.

(He could have been on his way to the bathroom, or saying that anyway!)

[Anonymous]

I got a very nice kiss from a man friend at a party once, that was it, nothing more ever happened. I'm pretty glad nobody emailed my husband about it. That would have caused lots of trouble for no good reason.

[Anonymous]

My neighbor/friend went my out of town once for work . She asked me to sort of be nice to/look out for her husband. He had tickets to a good artist at a local club. She said he should take me.

I went. When he dropped me at the door afterwards, he asked if he could kiss me. (“He was just curious.”)

I said no, and reminded him I was friends with his wife.

Upon her return, I did not tell her. I knew they were sort of rocky anyway. In the end they divorced (she had fallen out of love).

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't hurt two people over the behavior of two drunks.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I got a very nice kiss from a man friend at a party once, that was it, nothing more ever happened. I'm pretty glad nobody emailed my husband about it. That would have caused lots of trouble for no good reason.

I can tell you don’t like being held accountable, since you said you “got a kiss” (like a door prize) , instead of saying, “I kissed…”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:#TeamTell
If they are swingers its no big deal.
If they aren't, she has a right to know.

This!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I can’t believe all of the people who are telling OP to tell the wife. What good will that do? Possibly break up a marriage? If you tell the wife be prepared for her to ghost you and of course her spouse will. MYOB. You have no idea what’s going on in someone’s marriage.

Yes. Continue to let the wife exist in a marriage without knowing the truth.
Jeez

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I got a very nice kiss from a man friend at a party once, that was it, nothing more ever happened. I'm pretty glad nobody emailed my husband about it. That would have caused lots of trouble for no good reason.

I can tell you don’t like being held accountable, since you said you “got a kiss” (like a door prize) , instead of saying, “I kissed…”

You are weird. He kissed me. I enjoyed it. Dissect that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would stay out of it and pretend nothing happened.

This. Unless she’s your best friend. Also, if you are saying nothing, then make sure you actually say nothing. Don’t tell the rest of your friends.

Understand that you will likely lose this friendship if you tell.

+1

I wouldn’t tell unless it looked like she was going to give him a bj or he was going to plow her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Cocktail party in our neighborhood last night. I went to the bathroom. Saw him in the hallway with a woman who I recognized from our neighborhood. He seemed drunk and so did she. My husband wants me to say nothing. WTF. I thought this only happened in cheesy 1970s movies.

Mind you own business, this is 2023 many couples are exploring ENM relationships and for many people kissing is permitted play.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Cocktail party in our neighborhood last night. I went to the bathroom. Saw him in the hallway with a woman who I recognized from our neighborhood. He seemed drunk and so did she. My husband wants me to say nothing. WTF. I thought this only happened in cheesy 1970s movies.

Mind you own business, this is 2023 many couples are exploring ENM relationships and for many people kissing is permitted play.

Then it would be nbd to let the wife know.

[Anonymous]

This happened at a now infamous George Mason Elementary PTA party in Alexandria a couple years ago. I was there! A separated dad was seen through the window in the upstairs bathroom hooking up with/getting a BJ from a married woman on the PTA. It lit FB and Next Door on fire.

[Anonymous]

Just blackmail and made some money for the holiday season!! Ho, Ho, Ho!!

/Sarcasm

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This happened at a now infamous George Mason Elementary PTA party in Alexandria a couple years ago. I was there! A separated dad was seen through the window in the upstairs bathroom hooking up with/getting a BJ from a married woman on the PTA. It lit FB and Next Door on fire.

I know this sad sack of potatos

That's an amazing story. Did the PTA mom get divorced and end up with the separated dad?

Hot mess express.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They obviously have an open marriage, OP. Leave it be. None of your business.

Your friend probably has a side piece too.

If this is the case, what harm in letting the wife know?

Are you always this messy?

Watching my friends back isnt "messy". Sorry you are/have terrible friends.