Saw friend's DH kissing another woman at a party

[Anonymous]

Tell her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They obviously have an open marriage, OP. Leave it be. None of your business.

Your friend probably has a side piece too.

If this is the case, what harm in letting the wife know?

Are you always this messy?

[Anonymous]

Was the woman he was kissing better looking than his wife?

[Anonymous]

When I lived in Germany, I was told there was a law that you could not divorce your spouse for anything they did during the pre-lenten time parties. That same law should apply to American Christmas parties. Mind your own business but if you're tempted then remember that the messenger is frequently the one who gets shot!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Tell her. You'd want someone to tell you right op????

This.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Cocktail party in our neighborhood last night. I went to the bathroom. Saw him in the hallway with a woman who I recognized from our neighborhood. He seemed drunk and so did she. My husband wants me to say nothing. WTF. I thought this only happened in cheesy 1970s movies.

Why wasn’t your friend at this party with her husband?

If he wasn’t there alone, he wouldn’t have been kissing that hussy.

[Anonymous]

Of course tell her. Let her have a decision. You don’t get to decide for her. He’s probably done it before and she could use more evidence

[Anonymous]

Listen, this isn’t his first rodeo. Your friend already knows what kind of man she married, she knows he’s a wanderer.

You’re best to stay out of it, otherwise they will both turn on you and smear your name in the neighborhood.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Listen, this isn’t his first rodeo. Your friend already knows what kind of man she married, she knows he’s a wanderer.

You’re best to stay out of it, otherwise they will both turn on you and smear your name in the neighborhood.

BS. A lot if women don’t know they married a wanderer

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Listen, this isn’t his first rodeo. Your friend already knows what kind of man she married, she knows he’s a wanderer.

You’re best to stay out of it, otherwise they will both turn on you and smear your name in the neighborhood.

It probably wasn’t that ladies first rodeo either. Just sayin’

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Cocktail party in our neighborhood last night. I went to the bathroom. Saw him in the hallway with a woman who I recognized from our neighborhood. He seemed drunk and so did she. My husband wants me to say nothing. WTF. I thought this only happened in cheesy 1970s movies.

And in made up posts.

I have to agree with this.

This post just screams FAKE!

[Anonymous]

NP here.
I have a very similar story, only the kissers I saw at a neighborhood party saw me walk in on them.
I was sick about it, as I am friends with both parties - and so I posted on DCUM seeking advice. The responses I got were similar (MYOB, not my circus, etc).
The next day, the two kissers each confronted me about their kissing. I told them I didn’t know of what they speak and that I do not want to be involved. I repeated to them that I didn’t know of what they speak.
I felt such shame knowing what I knew and wished I didn’t witness anything. I was friends with all parities involved.
Fast forward one year… one couple moved away, the other is still here. I believe the local couple shared their kissing misadventure with their spouse, no idea about the moved away couple. I don’t ever from them.
No idea what you should do with this OP; just wanted to share.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They’re probably swingers, very common in the DMV.

Not in our circles

Is it really that common? I only know two couples here who are into that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:NP here.
I have a very similar story, only the kissers I saw at a neighborhood party saw me walk in on them.
I was sick about it, as I am friends with both parties - and so I posted on DCUM seeking advice. The responses I got were similar (MYOB, not my circus, etc).
The next day, the two kissers each confronted me about their kissing. I told them I didn’t know of what they speak and that I do not want to be involved. I repeated to them that I didn’t know of what they speak.
I felt such shame knowing what I knew and wished I didn’t witness anything. I was friends with all parities involved.
Fast forward one year… one couple moved away, the other is still here. I believe the local couple shared their kissing misadventure with their spouse, no idea about the moved away couple. I don’t ever from them.
No idea what you should do with this OP; just wanted to share.

Well if I walked in on kissing I would pretend to have seen nothing, but if they had the gall to confront me about it I’d probably tell all the spouses and the MILs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Cocktail party in our neighborhood last night. I went to the bathroom. Saw him in the hallway with a woman who I recognized from our neighborhood. He seemed drunk and so did she. My husband wants me to say nothing. WTF. I thought this only happened in cheesy 1970s movies.

And in made up posts.

I have to agree with this.

This post just screams FAKE!

Nothing seems fake to me except one thing: the hallway isn’t described as providing any plausible privacy for the kissers. If it were a basement hallway or third floor hallway, maybe. Nobody would do this in a semi-sneaky way; it would be in public under the mistletoe or somewhere actually pretty safe from exposure. Like in a good 19th century novel.