Happily married but have feelings for someone else

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Physical attraction, nothing else = normal, I wouldn’t be concerned.

Romantic feelings = huge red flag

It might be romantic

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I find myself in a similar situation. We are both married with kids, and she is so cute and personable. Ideally, if we were to act on our feelings, it would only be when we are at work conferences, maybe 3 to 4 times a year.

Don’t fool yourself, it won’t just be at work conferences and even if it is: there will still be heaps of emailing and talk about feelings. Women (even ostensibly happily married ones)don’t like to feel like an unpaid internet escort. There is NO such thing as recurrent NSA sex with a woman, repeat as necessary.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Physical attraction, nothing else = normal, I wouldn’t be concerned.

Romantic feelings = huge red flag

It might be romantic

Uh oh. Strap in for a bumpy ride.

[Anonymous]

Just don’t go to lunch together!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just don’t go to lunch together!

or drinks, or phone calls, or anything.

[Anonymous]

Having an open marriage has been the key for our relationship. Our needs are different and as humans are the only animal who has some need to be monogamous, we find going for our nature works for us.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Happily married with kids for 16 years and find myself attracted to a married coworker. Why is this happening?

Just give in, get the other person to pay for a hotel room and sleep with the person. Report back…