Mean things your teen has said to you

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Anonymous wrote:Let's share: Mean things your teen says to you.

“Just don’t talk to me again until I go off to college!”

She came to me with tears in her eyes to apologize 1 hour later. It still stung.

[Anonymous]

Yikes. If I had ever said something like these things to my mother growing up, she would have beaten the sh*t out of me. In fact, it would never even have occurred to me to say any of these awful things. Someone asked how do you quell this type of backtalk. It starts early- very early. There is a boundary early on in childhood that’s enforced when it comes to respect. Fwiw, I have a good relationship with my mother.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Mom, your chin hair is really long.

Um, you have something in your teeth.

laughing hysterically when I try on certain things in the dressing room at H&M

Your breath is terrible

You're wearing that?

Ah, the joys of having a 13 year old daughter.

My 14 yo daughter says things like that too. I'm not too bothered (I actually laugh at these remarks will say/do something ridiculous or embarassing in response-ha). Hopefully this is as bad as it gets!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Mom, your chin hair is really long.

Um, you have something in your teeth.

laughing hysterically when I try on certain things in the dressing room at H&M

Your breath is terrible

You're wearing that?

Ah, the joys of having a 13 year old daughter.

My 14 yo daughter says things like that too. I'm not too bothered (I actually laugh at these remarks will say/do something ridiculous or embarassing in response-ha). Hopefully this is as bad as it gets!

I breathe too loudly, chew too loudly and also have bad breath, Yay me!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yikes. If I had ever said something like these things to my mother growing up, she would have beaten the sh*t out of me. In fact, it would never even have occurred to me to say any of these awful things. Someone asked how do you quell this type of backtalk. It starts early- very early. There is a boundary early on in childhood that’s enforced when it comes to respect. Fwiw, I have a good relationship with my mother.

How do you know she would have beaten the sh*t out of you?

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Because she didn’t take sh*t. Didn’t take back talk. Had a death stare. Did this surreptitious Vulcan hold that no one could see in public but it hurt. 😂 But mostly she never said mean things like that to me, my siblings or our father, so it was not normalized. I’m talking about things like “I hate you” and “I’m cutting you off” etc. Not things like, you’re so lame and you listen to bad music. That’s pretty benign. But if I had told my mother to shut up or that I hated her…. I shudder to think of what I would have suffered!

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LOL, these are the sorts of things my parents said to my two sisters and me over the years. We sat by and took it, patiently waiting for them to grow up. They never did.

Sigh. Where did the three of us go wrong with them?

I wish my grandparents had nipped this shit in the bud when my parents were under their roofs. It really sucks to be the child of perpetually mean, teen-like parents. Please support your teen in outgrowing their mean behavior. They may do the same to your grandchildren one day.

[Anonymous]

DS just sent me a link for a book, “Jow not to be a dick.” Pretty funny actually.

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“I hate you”
“You treat me like a slave” (um, really no)
“You don’t love me. You only love (sister) because she is so perfect.”
“Stop talking to me get out of my room never come in here again”