So what are you complaining about then? |
Most mcps organizations are not run like ours which is why we don’t always contribute. The md state pta umbrella organization was shut down. It happens more often than most realize. |
You don’t make sense. Presumably you’re an officer in a PTA that does things well, but don’t always contribute because other OTAs are not run like yours! Most likely you’re the parent that never volunteers and never donates, both of which are fine. What’s not ok is to rant unhinged about other’s integrity with the flimsiest of evidence, and inventing crimes that don’t exist (like co-mingling of money!?, lol). I get things are not run always as they should. But don’t forget people put time and effort, often 10 hours a week or more. First and foremost, be respectful of that. |
Got it. Don’t be respectful of parents money. Don’t follow the rules or laws because darn it you are the volunteer. If you want to skim it is is no ones business. Trash anyone who dares to think you should follow the rules. PTA = STFU |
I can guarantee you I have done far more than you and if you will not do things properly don’t volunteer. And at some points it’s been far more than 10 hours a week. Stop rationalizing the inappropriate things you do and telling others it is ok. I’ve given a good amount of money and far more time than most. I don’t complain about and make a drama. We do everything 100% properly or we don’t do it. |
You sound like a social outcast. |
OP, I would report it to the MCCPTA and ask them to shut down the commingling of funds and use of personal Venmo. Even people with good intentions in the beginning could end up taking money here and there if they have financial pressures, or just have lax ethics. |
That’s literally what you do! ![]() |
+1 Great idea. |
I have been the local PTSA treasurer who cleaned up a co-mingled fund mess made by a previous PTSa president and treasurer, so you can silence your snarky remarks. |
That never happened. You do sound very intense though. Really confused about what you want. Are you just venting on DCUM, asking for advice, checking to see if others think the same as you? What’s your action plan? You don’t seem to want to bring it to the general meeting, possibly because it would be quite embarrassing. You want to write to the parent organization to “shut it down”. I’m doubting you ever dealt with MDPTA, they are happy if they get their audit forms in. You seriously sound unhinged. If you don’t like how things are run, step in, or get out of the way. Don’t donate if you think things are not run properly. |
NP. The OP is ridiculous. I’m a class parent and I ask for donations for teacher appreciation day and give my personal Venmo as the only option. I’m also an officer in the PTA.
I’d be offended if someone would suggest I’m stealing money from the class fund or that I’m unethical. |
It happens all the time. Even MCPS administrators embezzle school funds. Easy peasy. |
You are talking to multiple people and they aren't unhinged to do things properly and expect it done properly. |
Class parent is different because it's not a non-profit formal organization. But, I was co-class parent one year with a parent who collected the money and kept it all so I had to pay for all the parties out of my own funds. Eventually she gave me maybe $40 at the end of the school year but it was clear she was keeping most of it. The school refused to get involved. The next year she was sole room parent and it was clear she did the absolute minimum and kept the money as well. I always had parents buy their own gifts for teacher appreciation and just did a sign up genius for food and decorations and what ever wasn't donated I'd just pay for. But, the difference is there is no accountability with room parents but a PTA/PTO/Booster club is a non-profit with accountability. |