True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:False. They can learn to overcome temptation. I have.

You just haven't had the right motivation and opportunity since the first time.

DP than you're replying to but this is incorrect.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:As a cheater, I say false.

Me too

[Anonymous]

True. They always want fresh and new instead of old and stinky.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I say true.

I say true.

You have to jump through so many lies and hoops to keep that going, if you are capable of that you are capable of anything! It's not like oops! I slipped and fell on top of this person.

[Anonymous]

True. If you did once, you did it. You can't erase it, so even if you never cheat again, you're still a cheater.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:True. If you did once, you did it. You can't erase it, so even if you never cheat again, you're still a cheater.

Yep. It’s part of you.

[Anonymous]

True. Even if you cheated "only once" you are still at your core a cheater. Your moral compass is broken. You can spend eternity trying to repair things with your spouse and never cheat again, but you are still and always will be a cheater. And now you are pre-dispositioned to do other deceitful things to your spouse or others to boot because you have proven that you only care about yourself.

[Anonymous]

Can’t change the spots on a leopard

[Anonymous]

True.
Just because you don't cheat on EVERY partner (at least yet...) doesn't mean you are suddenly no longer a cheater.

[Anonymous]

True.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:True. They always want fresh and new instead of old and stinky.

Variety. Yes. But most if these guys are hitting moms that have already birthed children, not spring chickens: other wives. And these ow are often promiscuous which isn’t exactly “fresh”.

[Anonymous]

I cheated on a boyfriend (he was also doing questionable things and we glossed over a ton of stuff…) . I didn’t make a vow to him but i regret it (i was cowardly and immature). It also was one of the many signs we were not right for each other. Never been an issue in my marriage (15 years). Not even close.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I say true.

True, think about the lies, the deception, the choices at every stage and ultimately the carrying out of the act. There are way too many lies and steps that one needs to take to do something like that!