True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater
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Anonymous
Same. |
Anonymous
| I had two guys cheat on me when I was young but it gave me a good excuse to dump them so it was a good thing. I wasn’t in love with them so no big deal. I’ve been married a very long time and I’d be crushed but my husbands moral code has been so high for so long I don’t worry about it but make sure he’s happy. |
Anonymous
| As a non-cheater I say true. The contrapositive is that since I have never cheated, I never cheated once. This is true. |
Anonymous
| Cheating without a ring on it is not the same as cheating after marriage. I was pretty wild when single and did cheat then but would never dream of getting with a married person even during my wild days. That was a line in the sand. And I have always been faithful to my spouse. I respect the sanctity of marriage. |
Anonymous
Sorry, if someone thinks they’re in an exclusive relationship, cheating is cheating. You don’t have to be married to cheat on someone. Unless both members of a couple agree that they are open to dating others, it is cheating to go out with someone else at the same time. Sheesh, this seems obvious. Do some people just not have any morals at all? |
Anonymous
It goes both ways. Women who marry known cheaters and men who cheated in the past who are habitual liars. |
Anonymous
BS… I’m a cheater, tried numerous times because I know it wrong, but continue. It’s in our blood. Sux… |
Anonymous
| True, something is very wrong with me. Likely, I’m a narcissist |
Anonymous
| False. I became a cheater after 10 years of a sexless marriage. It tore me up, but I didn’t stop until that relationship was over. I have now been in a relationship with a healthy sex life for seven years and have never once even considered cheating, the idea revolts me. |
Anonymous
Daughters, too. |
Anonymous
My dad was the cheater. My sisters are cheaters, my brothers are not and I am not. |
Anonymous
You...you refer to yourself as a cheater yet you say you're not a cheater forever? |
Anonymous
| True. Don’t delude yourselves. It’s true. |
Anonymous
You mean true. You came up with a justified reason to betray your wife when there were other options available, instead chose to be a revolting gaslighting liar and cheater. And if for any reason something happens to turn your head in your current marriage, you will probably fall back to your known hardwired, justifying behavior. |
Anonymous
| False. They can learn to overcome temptation. I have. |