True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater
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Anonymous
| False but you can’t know which cheater is which. I’d never get into a LTR with somebody who had cheated. |
Anonymous
| True |
Anonymous
| False. I cheated at 19 because I felt trapped in a relationship hurtling toward marriage with a man everyone loved but me. I was immature and didn't understand I had agency and choices. |
Anonymous
+1 |
Anonymous
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False. I cheated on my then girlfriend when we were in grad school, more than 20 years ago. We ended up marrying a few years later, and I have been completely faithful to her since.
I was pretty young at the time, early 20s, and I think I was just really immature. I grew up and wanted to do better and be a good man. I try every day to be a good husband and dad. I’m not perfect, but I would never cheat again. I learned my lesson and I hate that I hurt this woman I love. |
Anonymous
| Not true. I was always a cheater. Well, often a cheater anyway. Then I met the man who is my DH and I haven't cheated in 20 years. |
Anonymous
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You can be a recovered cheater, just like you can be recovered from other stuff too.
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Anonymous
| True. I now have the divorce papers to show for it. |
Anonymous
| Somewhat. I think if a person cheats on you once, they’ll eventually cheat again. But people can and do change - so a person who cheated in a relationship in their early-mid 20s might not cheat on a new, more serious partner in their 30s. |
Anonymous
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Sons of cheaters have no problem with cheating.
I've encountered that twice directly. |
Anonymous
Nor do daughters of Ho cheating mothers. |
Anonymous
| No experience so far so I can’t vote. But I have a POV! |
Anonymous
| I really hope this is False |
Anonymous
| I’d say false.I’m a DH, would never think of cheating with my great wife. 26 years plus. |
Anonymous
+1. |