Hobbies for men to attract women?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Community theater. The community is 3/4 women and 1/4 men. Add in that 1/2 the men are gay, and you have a great pool. Single heterosexual men that get involved in theater rarely stay single for long unless they want to be. I was in theater in high school and early college, then not involved for 10 years. I decided to come back and in the first show, I was snatched up by my now wife. We started dating by the end of the run and have now been married for 21 years.

Even if you are not an actor, singer or dancer, community theater always needs people to do sound design, light design, or run tech, or build sets or paint sets. Most guys can find a way to be useful and will be in demand if they pick things up quickly. And community theater is great at teaching, so you don't need to know much before you start.

I was going to say that. My friend joined a theater group when he decided to get married. He was married within a year.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Salsa, bachata, etc dancing

+1 Any kind of partner dancing - salsa, swing, ballroom. We always need more men.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:250K isn't enough money to be considered "financially stable" by women these days.

At 250K you have to go way down the socio-economic ladder to find a woman who would consider 250K "stable"... with that in mind... pick hobbies that put you in contact with "common folk"...

Fishing (bass fishing), hunting, casino gambling, carnival cruses, beach vacations to Mexico, etc.

Ridiculous! The $250K comments and the suggested activities. I don’t know one woman who likes fishing or hunting or even casino gambling. Beach vacations you rarely see a guy alone that’s weird unless it’s some singles place. These are bad ideas.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:250K isn't enough money to be considered "financially stable" by women these days.

At 250K you have to go way down the socio-economic ladder to find a woman who would consider 250K "stable"... with that in mind... pick hobbies that put you in contact with "common folk"...

Fishing (bass fishing), hunting, casino gambling, carnival cruses, beach vacations to Mexico, etc.

Ridiculous! The $250K comments and the suggested activities. I don’t know one woman who likes fishing or hunting or even casino gambling. Beach vacations you rarely see a guy alone that’s weird unless it’s some singles place. These are bad ideas.

Mountain west women love fishing and hunting

Hot leggy Utah, Idaho, Montana, Wyoming women get snapped up early tho

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Buy a boat

Kayaking, hiking, animal rescue, yoga, wine clubs.

Yes to all of this, but boating.

What is wrong with boating?

DP...but maybe it's because a boat is just a hole you pour money into.

[Anonymous]

Video games, definitely video games.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I picked up so many women at WholeFood and Trader Joe. On the way back from my weekly guitar practice group, I stop by WF or Trader Joe to do grocery shopping. I carry the guitar on my back while I shop and women ask me if I am a musician. I told them I have a corporate job but I write commercial jingles. Women love musicians.

Who would carry a guitar around a supermarket?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Book club
Running club
Walking dog in park
Church group
Alumni activities for your college
Fix it guy

Add cultural activities - groups at museums and the symphony/opera

[Anonymous]

Guitar is a good idea. A four stringed instrument like mandolin might be even easier. Chicks do love musicians.

Dancing is an excellent idea. It is true that there are never enough men to go around the room.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Community theater. The community is 3/4 women and 1/4 men. Add in that 1/2 the men are gay, and you have a great pool. Single heterosexual men that get involved in theater rarely stay single for long unless they want to be. I was in theater in high school and early college, then not involved for 10 years. I decided to come back and in the first show, I was snatched up by my now wife. We started dating by the end of the run and have now been married for 21 years.

Even if you are not an actor, singer or dancer, community theater always needs people to do sound design, light design, or run tech, or build sets or paint sets. Most guys can find a way to be useful and will be in demand if they pick things up quickly. And community theater is great at teaching, so you don't need to know much before you start.

+1 I jokingly told my theater loving DD that she will never meet hetero men if she only hangs out with theater people.

She said there was one hetero guy in one of her productions, and all the girls went gaga over him.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I picked up so many women at WholeFood and Trader Joe. On the way back from my weekly guitar practice group, I stop by WF or Trader Joe to do grocery shopping. I carry the guitar on my back while I shop and women ask me if I am a musician. I told them I have a corporate job but I write commercial jingles. Women love musicians.

Who would carry a guitar around a supermarket?

dp.. someone who walked to the grocery store before/after going to guitar practice?

I brought my guitar into my office because I didn't want it sitting in a hot car all day. I was going to guitar practice after work.

- signed a woman

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Guitar is a good idea. A four stringed instrument like mandolin might be even easier. Chicks do love musicians.

Dancing is an excellent idea. It is true that there are never enough men to go around the room.

+1 basically, anything related to the arts: music, dancing, theater

[Anonymous]

I’d say it depends on what the OP wants. Does he want to date young hot women? Or is he looking for a marriage partner?

For instance, if he just wants to date hot women he should recognize that women tend to want to marry money and f*** muscles.

If you want to be f-able, hire a trainer and hit the gym, but don’t ever talk about it and please don’t try to hit your nutrition macros on a date.

Next, guy’s with wake surf/ski boats will always have a list of friends who look good in bikinis ready to hit the lake on the weekends.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Buy a boat

Kayaking, hiking, animal rescue, yoga, wine clubs.

Yes to all of this, but boating.

What is wrong with boating?

DP...but maybe it's because a boat is just a hole you pour money into.

"B-O-A-T" stands for "bust out another thousand."

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Guitar. Not bass.

+1

An average guy who can play guitar and sing becomes a 10 to women.

To me they become a loser. I mean did you see the Barbie movie? They hit the nail on the head with this one - “come let me sing at you”

Mileage obviously varies, but it's cliche for a reason. Guys who play guitar are obviously having more success with women, on average, than guys who don't play guitar.