Let me know after you change |
| I know at least a dozen UMC kids who got into HYSPM but instead of draining retirement of their parents or taking huge parent plus loans, went to other T20 schools on significant scholarships to make it affordable. Prestige is good if you are rich or on aid as HYSPM doesn't give merit scholarships. |
We have friends like this who were "all-in" on an Ivy, any Ivy - just because (they say) Ivies open doors. Not only was unrealistic for their DC's profile (did not even have "lottery ticket" stats/schedule) but it was puzzling since both parents were state school grads who (unlike your friend) have been very successful in their careers. Admittedly, they are not in the billionaire category and wouldn't register as "somebodies" in the DC bubble world - but they are successful by any other measure and personally valued and sought after in their prospective fields. Well - Ivy (and nothing even close to T40) didn't pan out and they had to change gears. I think their DC will do great (and always did). The DC has had great parent support and education their whole life and has full financial support from parents. The parents also have all sorts of professional contacts that will help the DC in job market later. They really underestimate how many steps ahead their DC is already. OP - don't bother with what people thinks is prestigious. Make a realistic balanced list of places your child would want to attend. Pay extra attention to the likely schools (find things to love) because it could very well be the set from which they are choosing from next Spring. Admissions is tough these days. |
You are so silly. |
| Ivy's and Southern Privates |
Spain may not have had WW2 forces but they were certainly a player. To say they had no involvement is VERY naive. |
Duke is full of cheaters. |
All that says to me is that Harvard english majors go into academia |
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Harvard Princeton Yale Harvard Naval Academy West Point MIT Stanford U of Chicago Oxford Cambridge NO Duke, NO UPenn, NO Hopkins |
This is 10-year-out from beginning of college. What does it tell you? If you are middle class, whatever you do, be prepared to make shit after 6 years from graduation. |
What do you think academics make 10 years out? Most will be post docs |
Seems reasonable but replace Naval Academy, West Point, and U of Chicago with Duke, UPenn, and Caltech. |
Idiot (no Y). |
+1 I really wish complete idiots would stop chiming in. |