Gross older men keep hitting on me

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm a guy and older men talk to me all the time. Because older men often just talk a lot to strangers. I'm pretty sure they aren't hitting on me.

But you’re not the main character like OP.

[Anonymous]

This is weird. I am 45. I see a man in his late 20s. I don’t date over 50.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I keep getting hit on and chatted up by 70-year-old, overweight, never married or very long since divorced men. Always the socially awkward ones, too.

I’m 37, divorced last year, thin and relatively attractive, putting myself back out there but absolutely NOT interested in these creepy old men. I’m afraid I somehow give out some kind of signal that I’m too “eligible” or somehow in the league of these men. I dated ONE man who was pushing 60, because we uniquely clicked, but that doesn’t mean I’m fair game. Go home, grandpa.

Don’t worry. This will pass in about 3 to 6 years.

It doesn't. I'm 48 and still get hit on a lot. Not by elderly men though.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is weird. I am 45. I see a man in his late 20s. I don’t date over 50.

20s? That’s like your kid’s age. When you have sex, does it feel like making out with your son’s best friend?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, I believe you. I am 53 and still get hit on. I am a widow and reasonably well off and I am also surprised by how many men want to know if I own my own home or want to be a sugar mama!! I know it might happen when I have dinner at the bar (many restaurants won’t seat single diners at a table) but it is annoying when any small talk is interpreted as flirting. This happens at baseball games, coffee shops, gallery openings, not singles events. I think it’s the men who are desperate and/or super deluded.

+1. Looking for a nurse or a purse.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How are you for money? Some of these guys their wallet can be thicker than their penis, which is worth considering. Sure, you might need to give them a few sponge baths or change a diaper or two when the hospice nurse isn’t around but the payoff can be awesome. Ask me how I know!

Nice try, troll. There are agencies who are happy to do that on an hourly basis.

[Anonymous]

DCUM is so weird. Is anyone else here just attracted to and an object of attraction to people in their own age group?

[Anonymous]

Women like OP are why the rest of you women can't find a man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I keep getting hit on and chatted up by 70-year-old, overweight, never married or very long since divorced men. Always the socially awkward ones, too.

I’m 37, divorced last year, thin and relatively attractive, putting myself back out there but absolutely NOT interested in these creepy old men. I’m afraid I somehow give out some kind of signal that I’m too “eligible” or somehow in the league of these men. I dated ONE man who was pushing 60, because we uniquely clicked, but that doesn’t mean I’m fair game. Go home, grandpa.

LOL. You’re delusional.

The market tells you what you’re worth. You don’t just get to make it up on your own.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This is weird. I am 45. I see a man in his late 20s. I don’t date over 50.

20s? That’s like your kid’s age. When you have sex, does it feel like making out with your son’s best friend?

My kid is 8.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This is weird. I am 45. I see a man in his late 20s. I don’t date over 50.

20s? That’s like your kid’s age. When you have sex, does it feel like making out with your son’s best friend?

My kid is 8.

So you had your first and only kid at 37, lost the father, and now bang 20 year olds?

So gross.

I’m sure you’re super blustery about how great your life is.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Women like OP are why the rest of you women can't find a man.

We'll pass on the old farts, thanks.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This is weird. I am 45. I see a man in his late 20s. I don’t date over 50.

20s? That’s like your kid’s age. When you have sex, does it feel like making out with your son’s best friend?

My kid is 8.

So you had your first and only kid at 37, lost the father, and now bang 20 year olds?

So gross.

I’m sure you’re super blustery about how great your life is.

I left my ex. The man is 28. I look 35. Who cares? I am not getting remarried. I had an almost completely sexless marriage, so I really don’t care what you think. I didn’t think I could get away with it, but I can and the guy was persistent so it’s fine. It will end naturally at some point.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is weird. I am 45. I see a man in his late 20s. I don’t date over 50.

20s? That’s like your kid’s age. When you have sex, does it feel like making out with your son’s best friend?

My kid is 8.

So you had your first and only kid at 37, lost the father, and now bang 20 year olds?

So gross.

I’m sure you’re super blustery about how great your life is.

I left my ex. The man is 28. I look 35. Who cares? I am not getting remarried. I had an almost completely sexless marriage, so I really don’t care what you think. I didn’t think I could get away with it, but I can and the guy was persistent so it’s fine. It will end naturally at some point.

You go, girl. No need to remarry just for sex.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is weird. I am 45. I see a man in his late 20s. I don’t date over 50.

20s? That’s like your kid’s age. When you have sex, does it feel like making out with your son’s best friend?

My kid is 8.

So you had your first and only kid at 37, lost the father, and now bang 20 year olds?

So gross.

I’m sure you’re super blustery about how great your life is.

I left my ex. The man is 28. I look 35. Who cares? I am not getting remarried. I had an almost completely sexless marriage, so I really don’t care what you think. I didn’t think I could get away with it, but I can and the guy was persistent so it’s fine. It will end naturally at some point.

You go, girl. No need to remarry just for sex.

Marriage was the biggest mistake of my life: no benefit. Only drawbacks. I was married to an emotional and financial abuser.

A silver lining to being divorced is having good sex that I missed.

I’m not interested in marriage. Ever.