Would you suggest implants ?

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Anonymous wrote:Responding to questions above: I consider it for my own confidence. Recently divorced never really dated and ex spouse was not a big size fan. All his women were thin and athletic including the new GF who is total AA based on her photos

The issue is I am foreign born and so many women in the US have fake boobs! I can distinguish them in the summer wearing crop tops. I do get many second dates but few third dates. Not sure if that’s because of the boobs or me not being ready to date. The men I meet say I am very beautiful bit there is no continuation.

Plastic surgeon just honestly thinks I look great without big boobs and that I will appear “too heavy” with silicone. Also it opens Pandora box with future surgeries: one might end up higher than the other, they can contract and disfigure breast, harden etc. My mom’s boobs grew after she turned 50, and that would likely happen to me as well.

So the guys asking for second dates are not calling you for a third dat because your books are too small? Did they not notice your books on the first date.

Are you really taking the women your ex husband likes into consideration.

Really? Is this what you've got? Really? Come on OP.

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Anonymous wrote:Big boobs just make you look heavy, especially as you age.

Implants don’t necessarily mean big boobs. I went from an A to a C.

C is a big size!

I was just googling. In 1983 and 1992 the average bra size in the US was 34B. It’s now 34DD, according to more than one site (although that seems crazy to me). But if you are GenX you might consider a C large.

But OP, don’t do it. Unnecessary surgery is unnecessary. I’m sure your body is great as it is.

It’s because of the obesity rates in the US. Big ol fat knockers.

Yep. I've gone from an A to a C with a 35 pound weight gain.

This is common with most of the women in my family.

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A friend of mine who is very petite also had an almost flat chest, especially after breastfeeding her kids. She got really small implants - like a small B maybe. She loves them. She just wanted it for her own self confidence, for her clothes to fit the way she wanted and to not see tiny saggy boobs in the mirror. They also got a pool recently and she wanted to feel better in a bathing suit. I didn't even know she had gotten them done and I see her often. She said she doesn't really look different because she had been wearing padded and push up bras and now her boobs just replace those. It has been ten years and so far she is very happy she did it.

She did it 100% for herself. Not for anyone else.

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I have to do it for breast reconstruction after breast cancer but would never do it otherwise.

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Anonymous wrote:If your body was exact like Kate Moss? I am thin, pretty face but always had hang ups about my top zone. They are not saggy just small like I am twenty years old. Cosmetic surgeon tries to talk me out of this.

VBA. Kate Moss is totally hot and your surgeon is entirely correct. It’s a great and sexy look — don’t mess it up. Is your surgeon a man? If so, consider the implications of a man advising AGAINST bigger boobs. I’d take that seriously if I were you.

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B cups aren’t small at all. It’s not like you have mosquito bites (not that there’s anything wrong with them, but they’re definitely small). I think you aren’t making it to the third date for other reasons. Get a dating coach!

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No. Everyone I know hates having boobs.

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Anonymous wrote:If your body was exact like Kate Moss? I am thin, pretty face but always had hang ups about my top zone. They are not saggy just small like I am twenty years old. Cosmetic surgeon tries to talk me out of this.

VBA. Kate Moss is totally hot and your surgeon is entirely correct. It’s a great and sexy look — don’t mess it up. Is your surgeon a man? If so, consider the implications of a man advising AGAINST bigger boobs. I’d take that seriously if I were you.

He’s a man. It’s a B cup I have not the “mosquito bites” but still I can’t show “balloons” with cleavage in an evening dress and need to wear a bra. They are not saggy, swimwear looks good on me.

Thanks all! I will think more about it

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Anonymous wrote:If your body was exact like Kate Moss? I am thin, pretty face but always had hang ups about my top zone. They are not saggy just small like I am twenty years old. Cosmetic surgeon tries to talk me out of this.

VBA. Kate Moss is totally hot and your surgeon is entirely correct. It’s a great and sexy look — don’t mess it up. Is your surgeon a man? If so, consider the implications of a man advising AGAINST bigger boobs. I’d take that seriously if I were you.

He’s a man. It’s a B cup I have not the “mosquito bites” but still I can’t show “balloons” with cleavage in an evening dress and need to wear a bra. They are not saggy, swimwear looks good on me.

Thanks all! I will think more about it

They sound perfect. And you will look fit and better in clothes as you age.

My Bs were Cs at time with hormones and became Ds when breast feeding (yuck).

And they have stayed perky and don’t sag—even in my early 50s I still have no sag. I’m an athlete too and Bs are fairly perfect. My husband always loved them, but he also likes @ss and legs even more.

When I lived in France, the men used to say anything more than fit in a champagne coupe glass was too big.

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Anonymous wrote:If your body was exact like Kate Moss? I am thin, pretty face but always had hang ups about my top zone. They are not saggy just small like I am twenty years old. Cosmetic surgeon tries to talk me out of this.

Don't do it. Breast growth slows but isn't complete until 23. You may still get a little more growth between now and then.

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Anonymous wrote:If your body was exact like Kate Moss? I am thin, pretty face but always had hang ups about my top zone. They are not saggy just small like I am twenty years old. Cosmetic surgeon tries to talk me out of this.

Don't do it. Breast growth slows but isn't complete until 23. You may still get a little more growth between now and then.

What did I say above that make everyone think I am 20? I am early 40s divorced woman. It’s the tits that look like I am 20.

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My wife has had the same set of saline implants for 20 years. She/they still look amazing.

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Another guy chiming in. Don’t do it unless it is really only for you. Smaller breasts and a small frame is a good look. Really, the only time I would consider augmentation is if you are like an A cup and wearing a size 10.

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Anonymous wrote:Another guy chiming in. Don’t do it unless it is really only for you. Smaller breasts and a small frame is a good look. Really, the only time I would consider augmentation is if you are like an A cup and wearing a size 10.

I am size 4, really thin 27 inch mid section, height 5’8. Doe you actually find Kate Moss Perelli photos hot as a man ?

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Anonymous wrote:My wife has had the same set of saline implants for 20 years. She/they still look amazing.

But, you know, they don’t look like breasts. I have seen two women nude with implants and I just don’t understand why anyone would do that. When you touch them, don’t you think how your squeezing bags of saline? They aren’t breasts. It’s so weird and they look strange. I guess to each his own but I would still be worried about the severe health effects.