You sound unhinged. It’s middle school. There will be drama. The school and the kids can handle it. You need to cam down. It isn’t elementary anymore. This is how your kids will get some independence and ability to negotiate spaces without you hovering over everything. I am not worried about my child’s safety and they are doing fine at Hardy. Stop with your hysterical nonsense. |
DP. I don’t know exactly what is happening at Hardy, but stop pretending that violence is normal, that lack of art and music are normal. DCPS truly sells parents on low expectations, it’s nuts. |
There have been cuts, but there is a music program. Also it’s not “violence” it’s kids getting in fights. Happens at most schools. It’s reality not low expectations. Especially after the trauma of the past few years. They are dealing with it. Seriously. This is not elementary school! You need to grow up. I feel bad for your kids. |
| Back to the question. People are not fleeing Hardy because of MacArthur. Some may have issues/concerns about Hardy, but they are not related to MacArthur. Most people are feeling positive about the new high school if a little nervous because it’s new (which seems normal to me). |
No, it does not happen at most schools that kids regularly get pummeled. That’s your extremely low expectations talking. I feel bad for your kids (all kids) that you think tolerating violent atmosphere is an appropriate response to “trauma.” |
My middle school did not have meaningful fights -- and definitely did not have what happened Friday, which might be better termed a brawl. (Does it meet your definition of "violence" if one of the people fighting is injured?) My middle school also did not have repeated fights involving the same people, because the involved students would have been promptly suspended and then expelled if it kept happening. I feel bad for your kids, PP, that you don't care that your kid is subjected to this environment, particularly after what all kids have had to put up with in the last few years. They should be able to learn and socialize without being exposed to 'non-violent' fighting (?!). |
What happened Friday? |
Can you stop hijacking this thread with your hysterics please? It is about MacArthur. Stay on topic. If you must post about fighting at Hardy, start a new one. |
Delusional to conclude that something that my kid had brought up with very little emotion or interest 3 months ago is still not affecting her now that she's no longer bringing it up? Yeah that's a weird take. I don't know what kind of weird relationship you're projecting onto us but I'm not delusional and my kid is not witnessing a lot of fights or being impacted by them. |
If DCPS cannot manage fighting at Hardy or properly fund it, why would Hardy parents believe MacArthur is going to work? |
This. Hardy students = Macarthur students. How is the thinking of current Hardy families not directly relevant to Macarthur? |
You know all kids are not the same, right? |
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Somebody should get to the bottom of the funding issue for Hardy. Why are non-academic subjects not funded as in other schools? It seems unacceptable and inequitable. Is the leadership and/or parents doing anything to change the situation?
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Concentrating poverty will always result in the above. Removing your higher SES child from the school system just makes the system more hyper-segregated. This is an issue at all higher-poverty schools. It's absurd to claim that DCPS are struggling more than peers. |
DCPS expects parents to just accept it, though. That’s the difference. |