Too boring to date?

[Anonymous]

Find a non-boring, high maintenance, high energy woman. Political events, earthy type volunteering etc.

Be a good listener and show that you support and don’t overshadow.

Every high maintenance lady I know hit a point where they were done with equally high maintenance men - then married the super quiet boring guy. Boring guy lets them shine and lead. It works….

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Find a non-boring, high maintenance, high energy woman. Political events, earthy type volunteering etc.

Be a good listener and show that you support and don’t overshadow.

Every high maintenance lady I know hit a point where they were done with equally high maintenance men - then married the super quiet boring guy. Boring guy lets them shine and lead. It works….

High maintenance ladies are quite exhausting. Men who date them need to think about whether she is really worth the effort..

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Find a non-boring, high maintenance, high energy woman. Political events, earthy type volunteering etc.

Be a good listener and show that you support and don’t overshadow.

Every high maintenance lady I know hit a point where they were done with equally high maintenance men - then married the super quiet boring guy. Boring guy lets them shine and lead. It works….

High maintenance ladies are quite exhausting. Men who date them need to think about whether she is really worth the effort..

And on top of that you are getting her after she spends her best years with high intensity men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Find a non-boring, high maintenance, high energy woman. Political events, earthy type volunteering etc.

Be a good listener and show that you support and don’t overshadow.

Every high maintenance lady I know hit a point where they were done with equally high maintenance men - then married the super quiet boring guy. Boring guy lets them shine and lead. It works….

High maintenance ladies are quite exhausting. Men who date them need to think about whether she is really worth the effort..

And on top of that you are getting her after she spends her best years with high intensity men.

I would suggest to go with church or catholic ladies, medium maintenance, medium-boring, pretty women instead of high maintenance…

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Find a non-boring, high maintenance, high energy woman. Political events, earthy type volunteering etc.

Be a good listener and show that you support and don’t overshadow.

Every high maintenance lady I know hit a point where they were done with equally high maintenance men - then married the super quiet boring guy. Boring guy lets them shine and lead. It works….

High maintenance ladies are quite exhausting. Men who date them need to think about whether she is really worth the effort..

And on top of that you are getting her after she spends her best years with high intensity men.

I would suggest to go with church or catholic ladies, medium maintenance, medium-boring, pretty women instead of high maintenance…

Pp here - yep. Responded as such even to a poster that suggested UU church

This is 💯 the best option and so many other posters also right away mentioned church.

[Anonymous]

You sound perfect! How can we meet?

[Anonymous]

OP you are probably making the mistake of looking for someone like you. You need an extrovert woman who will talk a lot and not care that you aren't responding or boring.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Find a non-boring, high maintenance, high energy woman. Political events, earthy type volunteering etc.

Be a good listener and show that you support and don’t overshadow.

Every high maintenance lady I know hit a point where they were done with equally high maintenance men - then married the super quiet boring guy. Boring guy lets them shine and lead. It works….

I don't think a high-energy woman would go for OP. She'd need someone to match her energy, not deplete it.