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"Nut up"? I'm sure the OP who will jump all over advice from someone that sounds painfully immature. |
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What happened to parents alternating brining a giant vat of orange wedges? That is all we ever got for team snack as a kid. I’d be on board with that- no litter and heathy. Well assuming all the peels get into the garbage- but biodegradable so no harm.
Otherwise- agree. No team snack |
You aren’t the only parent. If a group of the parents are enjoying it, why would the coach stop it? |
It’s not the athletes getting obese. If you don’t want to participate, don’t sign up or speak to the other parents directly. |
The athletes, as they participate in this culture of constant snacking, absolutely do get obese sometimes. Especially in the off season, or if they quit the sport, etc. Or even if not!! The girls on the high school soccer team are easily 20lbheavier than the girls on my own high school soccer team 25 years ago. |
Or perhaps you could stop presuming that it’s fine to hand out junk food to a bunch of other people’s kids just because *you* are ok with it. |
Oh geez, you don't even need to complain then. Tell your kid he's not allowed to have a snack. Sometimes the simplest solution is looking you right in the eye. |
No, quit feeding him. No kid should have to turn down snacks multiple times a day. Either you and your family are overweight and don’t recognize it as unhealthy, or you have no trouble being naturally thin and have no empathy for people who have a hard time not eating or turning down sugar, etc. |
| It’s no big deal. Just tell your kid no. |
No one defended junk food. |
DP You can not sign up on the sign up genius and tell your kid not to eat. I will sign up if it’s offered and I’ll also have my child eat. You do you, I’ll do me. |
I understand parenting your child the way you see fit which means if you don't allow snacks, you can tell your child not to eat snacks. I think that would be more trouble than it's worth though. Having a bag of goldfish after sweating and running for an hour doesn't ruin my son's appetite or make him fat. Therefore, I allow it. I have a friend who doesn't allow snacks other than fruits and veggies. Her kids are trained to decline offers of anything else. I get your point that it's hard to make your child follow rules that exclude him from the group. But it's simpler to control your kids than to control the whole team. |
Here’s the thing: Everybody can just bring their own snacks. You bringing snacks for the team is “controlling the team”! How can you not see that?! Why do some of you insist on feeding other people’s kids when it has nothing to do with the sport they signed up for? |
| When did this even start? I played lots of sports as a team, and no one brought snacks. |
| NP. I agree, it’s awful. Luckily once your kid gets good, they get into travel teams where this is looked down upon. Not surprisingly the kids of the parents who insist on snacks are never the once who get good. |