I don’t know what you are trying to say, but she was a shrewd and skilled businesswoman in her own right, and a great friend of President Trump always. |
| I saw the video of her son Eric at her house and the grief was horrible. He managed to be gracious. He is my favorite of her kids. You can tell he is a nice person. I wish their family well. |
+1. He is a true class act, as are all of the children. Their respective tributes in honor of their mother are extremely touching to read. |
Well said. Thank you! |
| So sad.😭 |
Can you provide a link? |
| So sounds like she fell down the stairs and broke neck? |
It's not an uncommon death for the age in place crowd. Over the past 10 years 4 of my friends have lost parents to falls and many of us had parents fall and be stuck for hours before discovered. it's so hard to get them to agree to the level of help needed. I was not a fan of the book recommended here..something like "On being Mortal" but it does help me make peace with the fact my mother could die the same way. She is stubborn, refuses help, considered cognitively fine and has a staircase from hell. If she dies falling down those steps, it's on her terms living the way she wants. |
But 73 is a bit young to be considered “aging in place” - and it’s young for Assisted Living. And obviously had every resource at her disposal. He death was very shocking because she was so vibrant and larger than life. |
^obviously *she* had every resource |
Actually, 73 is well within the nursing home age. Plenty of younger people in assisted living. But of course she had ample resources, so probably would not have gone that route even if much older. |
Is it? My parents are 75 and 78, and their friends are all around that age. They’re all still living in the same houses they’ve lived in for decades, socializing, traveling, going to events. They’re all pretty average middle class/UMC folks. Some are talking about moving into condos, but assisted living seems far in the future. |
+1 |
We have an elder care forum for you. |
Beautifully said. |