How would you interpret this text from an ex?

[Anonymous]

Good for you, OP! In fact, block his number!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would interpret that as he has moved on, potentially has someone new in his life, but is hoping to be friends.

You’re not good with people are you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I recently dated a guy on and off for 6 months; I broke it off with him a few months ago because I wanted a committed relationship and he didn't. In the few months since, he's texted me a few times and I haven't responded.

Last night, he sent me a pic of a wine bottle and glass of wine and said, "I think you got me this bottle! Not sure what stage of life you're at...a lot has changed for me! If you're up for a chat, let me know!"

Do you think he is implying that he's changed his mind about wanting a relationship with me, OR that he has moved on and gotten engaged o new job, etc and wants to tell me about it?

Breadcrumbing

DP I just learned what breadcrumbing is and think the same.

Sounds like a manipulator.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP: oh my, lol- I just looked at the photo again and there are TWO wine glasses. One is totally empty and off to the side. The other one is filled with wine.

So he was likely trying to make you jealous?

[Anonymous]

He's hard up and hoping you'll p u t out

[Anonymous]

Last night, he sent me a pic of a wine bottle and glass of wine and said, "I think you got me this bottle! Not sure what stage of life you're at...a lot has changed for me! If you're up for a chat, let me know!"

I think he's being pretty direct OP. It's an eloquent ext and he put some thought into it. Does not sound like he's playing games or looking to just hook up. Only one way to find out, right? If you're not into him any longer, you can meet for coffee or a glass of wine, listen to what he has to say, and be friends. If you're still into him, same as above, and decide if he's worth another try.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Last night, he sent me a pic of a wine bottle and glass of wine and said, "I think you got me this bottle! Not sure what stage of life you're at...a lot has changed for me! If you're up for a chat, let me know!"

I think he's being pretty direct OP. It's an eloquent ext and he put some thought into it. Does not sound like he's playing games or looking to just hook up. Only one way to find out, right? If you're not into him any longer, you can meet for coffee or a glass of wine, listen to what he has to say, and be friends. If you're still into him, same as above, and decide if he's worth another try.

Eloquent or manipulative!

[Anonymous]

"Eloquent"? "Direct"? Give me a break.

[Anonymous]

He sounds like flake and a creek, and so does OP. Anybody who crowdsources relationship games with strangers is a drama queen. I think they could be good together.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He sounds like flake and a creek, and so does OP. Anybody who crowdsources relationship games with strangers is a drama queen. I think they could be good together.

oops, meant creep

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Last night, he sent me a pic of a wine bottle and glass of wine and said, "I think you got me this bottle! Not sure what stage of life you're at...a lot has changed for me! If you're up for a chat, let me know!"

I think he's being pretty direct OP. It's an eloquent ext and he put some thought into it. Does not sound like he's playing games or looking to just hook up. Only one way to find out, right? If you're not into him any longer, you can meet for coffee or a glass of wine, listen to what he has to say, and be friends. If you're still into him, same as above, and decide if he's worth another try.

It is not eloquent. Your bar must be really low.

[Anonymous]

Maybe ask him a direct question: "what exactly do you mean.

If he responds with a direct answer, you'll know what's what.

If he continues with vague stuff, block him. He's a jerk and any relationship with him will be filled with uncertainty and perhaps angst.

[Anonymous]

I’d send him a dick pic as a finale. With a vague ? Afterwards.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would interpret that as he has moved on, potentially has someone new in his life, but is hoping to be friends.

No way. He wants you back.

[Anonymous]

He wants to know where the bottle came from.