If a mom friend of yours punched her babysitter who sh’s thought was having an affair with her DH

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I would punch the husband.

When I found out my husband had an affair I beat the crap out of him.

He wouldn’t leave and I kept telling him to because my anger:emotions were so high.

I would have loved to beat her too, but I didn’t want to go to jail.


This. I had a ton of violent revenge fantasies of her getting run over by a bus or getting terminal cancer, but I didn’t know her and took my anger out on the one I was married to. My dreams were pretty scary at this time. I scared myself. When you are lied to for a very long time you feel like they took you for a fool and it makes you crazy.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I would punch the husband.

When I found out my husband had an affair I beat the crap out of him.

He wouldn’t leave and I kept telling him to because my anger:emotions were so high.

I would have loved to beat her too, but I didn’t want to go to jail.


This. I had a ton of violent revenge fantasies of her getting run over by a bus or getting terminal cancer, but I didn’t know her and took my anger out on the one I was married to. My dreams were pretty scary at this time. I scared myself. When you are lied to for a very long time you feel like they took you for a fool and it makes you crazy.


I think like the cheaters : if I knew I wouldn’t get caught, yes I’d do it (in this case absolute violence; not cheating ) Lol
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I would punch the husband.

When I found out my husband had an affair I beat the crap out of him.

He wouldn’t leave and I kept telling him to because my anger:emotions were so high.

I would have loved to beat her too, but I didn’t want to go to jail.


Well you sound dangerous and unhinged. Your husband cheated on you so you “beat the crap out of him”?? No one would be cheering you on if you were a man beating a woman who cheated. I hope you are in therapy for your issues. And frankly I would hope he got full custody and you are only allowed supervised visitations.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Violence is never an answer. I'd never watch any Will Smith movie again.


This is all lies.

1. Violence is at times the answer, the law actually agrees with this.


Simply because something is legal doesn't mean it is right.



True. But violence is at times the answer. Saying violence is never the answer is just a mindless mantra people repeat.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Violence is never an answer. I'd never watch any Will Smith movie again.


This is all lies.

1. Violence is at times the answer, the law actually agrees with this.


Simply because something is legal doesn't mean it is right.



True. But violence is at times the answer. Saying violence is never the answer is just a mindless mantra people repeat.


Are you all seriously defending someone who punched a babysitter because they though they may have slept with their spouse? Very, very strange.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I would punch the husband.

When I found out my husband had an affair I beat the crap out of him.

He wouldn’t leave and I kept telling him to because my anger:emotions were so high.

I would have loved to beat her too, but I didn’t want to go to jail.


Well you sound dangerous and unhinged. Your husband cheated on you so you “beat the crap out of him”?? No one would be cheering you on if you were a man beating a woman who cheated. I hope you are in therapy for your issues. And frankly I would hope he got full custody and you are only allowed supervised visitations.


DP. I remember reading an email from my husband’s therapist: your lover didn’t give you permission to share her name/info.

I literally saw stars after that. Well, his wife didn’t give her permission to f@ck her husband for years and expose her to disease.

At that point I wanted to beat the crap out of the therapist. Lol

The betrayed gets sh@t on from all corners and is lied to by everyone.

I could forgive a little kick @ss in these situations.

The therapist doesn’t want liability for the fallout if a victim does retaliate.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I would punch the husband.

When I found out my husband had an affair I beat the crap out of him.

He wouldn’t leave and I kept telling him to because my anger:emotions were so high.

I would have loved to beat her too, but I didn’t want to go to jail.


Well you sound dangerous and unhinged. Your husband cheated on you so you “beat the crap out of him”?? No one would be cheering you on if you were a man beating a woman who cheated. I hope you are in therapy for your issues. And frankly I would hope he got full custody and you are only allowed supervised visitations.


Go blow yourself. If the cheater wouldn’t leave and was in her face even the law excuses this crime of passion. The loser should have given her space like she asked.
Anonymous
Don’t screw someone else’s spouse. You can’t predict what anyone will do when they find out and crimes of passion are always the most violent.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I would punch the husband.

When I found out my husband had an affair I beat the crap out of him.

He wouldn’t leave and I kept telling him to because my anger:emotions were so high.

I would have loved to beat her too, but I didn’t want to go to jail.


Well you sound dangerous and unhinged. Your husband cheated on you so you “beat the crap out of him”?? No one would be cheering you on if you were a man beating a woman who cheated. I hope you are in therapy for your issues. And frankly I would hope he got full custody and you are only allowed supervised visitations.


Go blow yourself. If the cheater wouldn’t leave and was in her face even the law excuses this crime of passion. The loser should have given her space like she asked.


So then I assume if a man beat up his wife because he thought she was cheating on him and wouldn’t leave, you’d be like “yep, totally cool with it”. I’m surprised how many people on this thread are defending domestic violence. It’s pretty shocking.
Anonymous
Elin Nordgren and Lionel Richie’s ex-wife are my hero’s.

Elin beat the sh@t out of Tiger with a bat and nobody faulted her, including Tiger. Bad@ss b@tches are my heroes.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I would punch the husband.

When I found out my husband had an affair I beat the crap out of him.

He wouldn’t leave and I kept telling him to because my anger:emotions were so high.

I would have loved to beat her too, but I didn’t want to go to jail.


Well you sound dangerous and unhinged. Your husband cheated on you so you “beat the crap out of him”?? No one would be cheering you on if you were a man beating a woman who cheated. I hope you are in therapy for your issues. And frankly I would hope he got full custody and you are only allowed supervised visitations.


Go blow yourself. If the cheater wouldn’t leave and was in her face even the law excuses this crime of passion. The loser should have given her space like she asked.


So then I assume if a man beat up his wife because he thought she was cheating on him and wouldn’t leave, you’d be like “yep, totally cool with it”. I’m surprised how many people on this thread are defending domestic violence. It’s pretty shocking.


Just as surprising as how many condone cheating and exposing spouses to deadly STIs abs lifelong infections without their knowledge.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Elin Nordgren and Lionel Richie’s ex-wife are my hero’s.

Elin beat the sh@t out of Tiger with a bat and nobody faulted her, including Tiger. Bad@ss b@tches are my heroes.


That Elin thing was the absolute best!!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Don’t screw someone else’s spouse. You can’t predict what anyone will do when they find out and crimes of passion are always the most violent.


This would be the moral of the story. Yes.

Harm someone’s kids or risk their family unit, expect wrath.
Anonymous
Sweet little Swedish girl pushed to the brink:

“Tiger Woods was at the peak of his career a decade ago when his wife discovered that he had cheated on her. When his cheating scandal broke, Elin Nordegren chased him out of their house with his own golf club and used it to smash in the windows of his car“

Even those with no violent history snap with this kind of revelation.
Anonymous
^ usually the wife has been verbally, emotionally abused and gaslighted for years with the cheating too. It’s psychologically damming.
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