How do men feel about receiving bikini pics of a woman they're dating?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I've been dating a man for a month. I'm going on a beach trip this week and was thinking of texting him a pic of me on the beach in a bikini, to spice things up.

Does that come across as cute and flirty, or too forward? We haven't slept together yet.

Man here, I would like it if it were someone I was attracted to.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:56 man here, and my last two girlfriends send bikini pics, lingerie pics, and nudes. They were both considerably younger than me.

I don't understand why women do this. If you break up do you want lingerie pics and nudes of yourself circulating out there with someone you no longer date? They could wind up anywhere.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I've been dating a man for a month. I'm going on a beach trip this week and was thinking of texting him a pic of me on the beach in a bikini, to spice things up.

Does that come across as cute and flirty, or too forward? We haven't slept together yet.

Man here, I would like it if it were someone I was attracted to.

Would you date someone for a month if you weren’t attracted to her?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:56 man here, and my last two girlfriends send bikini pics, lingerie pics, and nudes. They were both considerably younger than me.

I don't understand why women do this. If you break up do you want lingerie pics and nudes of yourself circulating out there with someone you no longer date? They could wind up anywhere.

So what? I don’t put my face in nudes. If it’s a bikini who cares?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:56 man here, and my last two girlfriends send bikini pics, lingerie pics, and nudes. They were both considerably younger than me.

I don't understand why women do this. If you break up do you want lingerie pics and nudes of yourself circulating out there with someone you no longer date? They could wind up anywhere.

I'm an honorable man and I don't circulate her photos.

[Anonymous]

Straight men are notorious for hating pictures of women they find attractive in bikinis.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:As a guy I prefer NON-tasteful nudes. Second option would be a normal bikini pics. I really despise tasteful nudes but I suppose those are better than nothing. On work trips the wife sends me videos. Anyone dissuading OP from sending pics is a weirdo

What is your issue with tasteful nudes?

[Anonymous]

I just do not understand the guy mindset at all. Why don't I LOVE getting pics from my boyfriend? I mean I like them and all but it's not really a thing I appreciate or whatever.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:56 man here, and my last two girlfriends send bikini pics, lingerie pics, and nudes. They were both considerably younger than me.

I don't understand why women do this. If you break up do you want lingerie pics and nudes of yourself circulating out there with someone you no longer date? They could wind up anywhere.

Aaaand? People would find out I have breasts? Dearie me!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:56 man here, and my last two girlfriends send bikini pics, lingerie pics, and nudes. They were both considerably younger than me.

I don't understand why women do this. If you break up do you want lingerie pics and nudes of yourself circulating out there with someone you no longer date? They could wind up anywhere.

99% of these type of pictures are not getting passed around. The people in them are just not that attractive.

[Anonymous]

Silly question. Answer is YES

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:56 man here, and my last two girlfriends send bikini pics, lingerie pics, and nudes. They were both considerably younger than me.

I don't understand why women do this. If you break up do you want lingerie pics and nudes of yourself circulating out there with someone you no longer date? They could wind up anywhere.

Hasn't revenge porn been outlawed in most places?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I've been dating a man for a month. I'm going on a beach trip this week and was thinking of texting him a pic of me on the beach in a bikini, to spice things up.

Does that come across as cute and flirty, or too forward? We haven't slept together yet.

Define date.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:56 man here, and my last two girlfriends send bikini pics, lingerie pics, and nudes. They were both considerably younger than me.

I don't understand why women do this. If you break up do you want lingerie pics and nudes of yourself circulating out there with someone you no longer date? They could wind up anywhere.

99% of these type of pictures are not getting passed around. The people in them are just not that attractive.

Pretty much every woman under age 40 has bikini photos (and often far more vulgar) on their facebook, instagram and tiktok accounts right now. And text and snap more vulgar than that to men they date. Not something we encourage our daughters to do but it is what it is.

[Anonymous]

Don’t text a bikini picture; wait for the beach scopes guy to come around and then you can bring him a spicy keychain home as a souvenir.