How do men feel about receiving bikini pics of a woman they're dating?

[Anonymous]

Another man here. I have a slightly negative impression of bikini pics on dating apps but I like your plan OP. It does send a signal so make sure you mean it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I've been dating a man for a month. I'm going on a beach trip this week and was thinking of texting him a pic of me on the beach in a bikini, to spice things up.

Does that come across as cute and flirty, or too forward? We haven't slept together yet.

Depends. Photo of you and a friend in the foreground with like a sunset in the background and you're in a bikini top? Sure. Not an issue. Full body shot, laying on a towel with an oiled tummy glistening, your hips arched and duck lips? Gross.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I've been dating a man for a month. I'm going on a beach trip this week and was thinking of texting him a pic of me on the beach in a bikini, to spice things up.

Does that come across as cute and flirty, or too forward? We haven't slept together yet.

Depends. Photo of you and a friend in the foreground with like a sunset in the background and you're in a bikini top? Sure. Not an issue. Full body shot, laying on a towel with an oiled tummy glistening, your hips arched and duck lips? Gross.

Are you 50+?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I've been dating a man for a month. I'm going on a beach trip this week and was thinking of texting him a pic of me on the beach in a bikini, to spice things up.

Does that come across as cute and flirty, or too forward? We haven't slept together yet.

Depends. Photo of you and a friend in the foreground with like a sunset in the background and you're in a bikini top? Sure. Not an issue. Full body shot, laying on a towel with an oiled tummy glistening, your hips arched and duck lips? Gross.

Are you 50+?

I am 50.

Anyway, this is very pick me behavior.

[Anonymous]

I prefer tasteful nudes.

[Anonymous]

There is no question men will always be happy to receive anything that makes you seem more fu*kable. The question is what you want out of the situation besides that, because it could be all you get.

[Anonymous]

Guy here, amazing. Would love to get this. I would be shocked if there were more than 1% of men who wouldn't want it

[Anonymous]

As a guy I prefer NON-tasteful nudes. Second option would be a normal bikini pics. I really despise tasteful nudes but I suppose those are better than nothing. On work trips the wife sends me videos. Anyone dissuading OP from sending pics is a weirdo

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I've been dating a man for a month. I'm going on a beach trip this week and was thinking of texting him a pic of me on the beach in a bikini, to spice things up.

Does that come across as cute and flirty, or too forward? We haven't slept together yet.

Depends. Photo of you and a friend in the foreground with like a sunset in the background and you're in a bikini top? Sure. Not an issue. Full body shot, laying on a towel with an oiled tummy glistening, your hips arched and duck lips? Gross.

Are you 50+?

And a woman?

[Anonymous]

I personally would not send a bikini shot to someone I wasn’t close to and not to someone I hadn’t slept with.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm a woman - I think it looks thirsty and kind of immature and desperate.

Why don’t you send him several photos from your trip, including one in a bikini. That way you’re just sharing your fun trip with him— and you happen to look great in a bikini after working with a trainer for a year!

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I've been dating a man for a month. I'm going on a beach trip this week and was thinking of texting him a pic of me on the beach in a bikini, to spice things up.

Does that come across as cute and flirty, or too forward? We haven't slept together yet.

Depends. Photo of you and a friend in the foreground with like a sunset in the background and you're in a bikini top? Sure. Not an issue. Full body shot, laying on a towel with an oiled tummy glistening, your hips arched and duck lips? Gross.

Are you 50+?

I am 50.

Anyway, this is very pick me behavior.

...right. which is appropriate when you do in fact want the guy to pick you.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I've been dating a man for a month. I'm going on a beach trip this week and was thinking of texting him a pic of me on the beach in a bikini, to spice things up.

Does that come across as cute and flirty, or too forward? We haven't slept together yet.

Depends. Photo of you and a friend in the foreground with like a sunset in the background and you're in a bikini top? Sure. Not an issue. Full body shot, laying on a towel with an oiled tummy glistening, your hips arched and duck lips? Gross.

Are you 50+?

I am 50.

Anyway, this is very pick me behavior.

...right. which is appropriate when you do in fact want the guy to pick you.

Exactly. What is wrong with showing a little interest? Life is supposed to be fun sometimes.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I've been dating a man for a month. I'm going on a beach trip this week and was thinking of texting him a pic of me on the beach in a bikini, to spice things up.

Does that come across as cute and flirty, or too forward? We haven't slept together yet.

Depends. Photo of you and a friend in the foreground with like a sunset in the background and you're in a bikini top? Sure. Not an issue. Full body shot, laying on a towel with an oiled tummy glistening, your hips arched and duck lips? Gross.

Are you 50+?

I am 50.

Anyway, this is very pick me behavior.

...right. which is appropriate when you do in fact want the guy to pick you.

Exactly. What is wrong with showing a little interest? Life is supposed to be fun sometimes.

+2. And not even pick me behavior. Normal flirty dating behavior.

[Anonymous]

56 man here, and my last two girlfriends send bikini pics, lingerie pics, and nudes. They were both considerably younger than me.