I've been dating a man for a month. I'm going on a beach trip this week and was thinking of texting him a pic of me on the beach in a bikini, to spice things up.
Does that come across as cute and flirty, or too forward? We haven't slept together yet. |
Tacky AF. Use your words. |
What have you guys been doing for a month? |
OP: We've been going on dates and making out, and then I go home afterward. Haven't invited him up yet. And he lives kind of far for me to go there after the dates. |
What is your plan? This sounds kind of high school. |
Do it and report back |
Send a blurry close up of your vag. |
OP, you will find different answers between men and women in this thread.
I'm a guy, and I'd love it. Such a tease, lol. |
OP: Thanks for weighing in. I'm not planning on posing suggestively, just having fun. I've been working with a trainer for the past year so I'm also very confident with my body and it's not like I'm showing anything I wouldn't show in public. |
I’m a man and have received similar photos and think it’s awesome. |
Of course the man will enjoy receiving a bikini pic, are you kidding me?? OP if you're comfortable with it, go with it. Bikini pics are fun/hot/safe. It's not like you're planning to send him nudes. |
I’m a man. She should take the bikini off and send it — even better. |
I’m a guy, I’d be all for it. |
My first thought would be "Wow, she's hot... and fun too. Can't wait to see her again."
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I really can’t see a guy objecting. I guess it depends on his personality a bit but most guys…yeah, they will appreciate it. It’s sexy and flirty. |