Hiring a gorgeous nanny

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Hell no. We’re very monogamous, but if I had a hot young man in my home who was good with my kids, did every chore I asked him to with a smile on his face, and listened without complaint when I told him to put his phone away, you bet I’d be hitting that.

It's common sense. Personally I won't have any live in nanny - I only do live out even though I have help at crazy hours. Better someone who lives nearby and has their own life.

My best nannies are in their 40s, had kids young, married, and live within 5 mile radius

+ 1. This is how you do it. God bless the women that help us like this. I happily hand 1/3 my paycheck to mine and thank her every chance I get.

[Anonymous]

I honestly think you should do it....and if it turns out you get the chance to watch him with her then that isn't bad either....I say go for it....

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Currently living this nightmare, except our nanny is anything but gorgeous. Don't do it, OP!

Did you have issues with your marriage before? How were they alone together?

I didn't think they were huge issues but I guess my spouse was unhappy. Sex was definitely at a low, but we have a pandemic baby and two older kids, and it's just a challenging time in our marriage. Perfect storm I guess. Their relationship started over texts and once my spouse started taking over some drop off/pick up duties it just went from there (nanny was not in-home but nanny share).

I'm being left for her.

So sorry!

[Anonymous]

The nanny could be a lesbian. Like I was. I was a gorgeous nanny but also a lesbian, would have been very annoyed if I couldn’t get a job because the wife was worried about me and the husband lol

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:They don’t need to be gorgeous. Remember Schwarzenegger?

Gwen stefanis husband and reese witherspoon husband also cheated with nannies. So did Ethan Hawke. He cheated on uma with their nanny.

And Ethan Hawke is still married to the former nanny.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They don’t need to be gorgeous. Remember Schwarzenegger?

Gwen stefanis husband and reese witherspoon husband also cheated with nannies. So did Ethan Hawke. He cheated on uma with their nanny.

And Ethan Hawke is still married to the former nanny.

That nanny is butt ugly. What's wrong with those men? Celebrity men can pull in the hottest women but then cheat on them with ugly ones.

[Anonymous]

I know someone who would only hire grandmotherly or gay male nannies for this very reason.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They don’t need to be gorgeous. Remember Schwarzenegger?

Gwen stefanis husband and reese witherspoon husband also cheated with nannies. So did Ethan Hawke. He cheated on uma with their nanny.

And Ethan Hawke is still married to the former nanny.

And Jude Law and Ben Affleck cheated with the nanny. In both cases, their spouse was better looking than the nanny.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hell no. We’re very monogamous, but if I had a hot young man in my home who was good with my kids, did every chore I asked him to with a smile on his face, and listened without complaint when I told him to put his phone away, you bet I’d be hitting that.

It's common sense. Personally I won't have any live in nanny - I only do live out even though I have help at crazy hours. Better someone who lives nearby and has their own life.

My best nannies are in their 40s, had kids young, married, and live within 5 mile radius

+ 1. This is how you do it. God bless the women that help us like this. I happily hand 1/3 my paycheck to mine and thank her every chance I get.

Yup. My full paycheck

Personally I find 20s nannies are not stable personalities. I find 40s nannies the best. Treat them well and they're grown up about the job, they don't take random mental health days, they are used to the realities of life, they are proud and professional.

[Anonymous]

Ageism and sexism in one thread and the main perpetrators are women.

[Anonymous]

I think it depends on your husband. Mine is very handsome with a drive drive. He’s also told me never to hire an attractive nanny because opportunity could result in an affair. We are very honest with each other and I doubt he would cheat but I’d also prefer not to make it easy. I was also an au pair before in another country and I’m very attractive but the husband was 100% respectful.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think it depends on your husband. Mine is very handsome with a drive drive. He’s also told me never to hire an attractive nanny because opportunity could result in an affair. We are very honest with each other and I doubt he would cheat but I’d also prefer not to make it easy. I was also an au pair before in another country and I’m very attractive but the husband was 100% respectful.

I feel sorry for you that you think your husband admitting he's a trashbag is an admirable quality.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think it depends on your husband. Mine is very handsome with a drive drive. He’s also told me never to hire an attractive nanny because opportunity could result in an affair. We are very honest with each other and I doubt he would cheat but I’d also prefer not to make it easy. I was also an au pair before in another country and I’m very attractive but the husband was 100% respectful.

Lol, you doubt he would cheat?? He literally told you he would cheat!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think it depends on your husband. Mine is very handsome with a drive drive. He’s also told me never to hire an attractive nanny because opportunity could result in an affair. We are very honest with each other and I doubt he would cheat but I’d also prefer not to make it easy. I was also an au pair before in another country and I’m very attractive but the husband was 100% respectful.

I feel sorry for you that you think your husband admitting he's a trashbag is an admirable quality.

Oh please, he's much better because he's honest and knows not to put himself in situations that he may cheat. Because most men would sleep with the hot nanny if he could and get away with it. Including your DH, I promise you

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hell no. We’re very monogamous, but if I had a hot young man in my home who was good with my kids, did every chore I asked him to with a smile on his face, and listened without complaint when I told him to put his phone away, you bet I’d be hitting that.

It's common sense. Personally I won't have any live in nanny - I only do live out even though I have help at crazy hours. Better someone who lives nearby and has their own life.

My best nannies are in their 40s, had kids young, married, and live within 5 mile radius

+ 1. This is how you do it. God bless the women that help us like this. I happily hand 1/3 my paycheck to mine and thank her every chance I get.

Yup. My full paycheck

Personally I find 20s nannies are not stable personalities. I find 40s nannies the best. Treat them well and they're grown up about the job, they don't take random mental health days, they are used to the realities of life, they are proud and professional.

I like late 20s, early 30s. Young enough to be energetic and not burnt out. Old enough to be responsible.