DH's ex wife asked him to accompany her to a work event

Anonymous
Her job is having some kind of event and she asked him to be her date. I'm not pissed off that she asked, I'm pissed off that DH is actually considering it! I'm sure there are other men she can ask, why my husband? I'm not trying to be petty, but I'm close! I can't believe DH didn't flat out tell her no! Ugh, idiot! Sorry, I needed to vent!
Anonymous

It's not appropriate for her to ask, OP, and you should be annoyed at her first, then you husband for considering it. He should tell her not to ask him ever again.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
It's not appropriate for her to ask, OP, and you should be annoyed at her first, then you husband for considering it. He should tell her not to ask him ever again.


ALL of this! I can maybe make up a few random reasons where this might be appropriate but even those are a stretch. She was wrong to ask, he was wrong to not say "Hell no".
Anonymous
You should seriously question your relationship with your husband
Anonymous
She should have been more respectful of your marriage and have not asked and your hubby should not even be considering it.

It sounds as if they both have lost their damn minds.
Anonymous
Yeah, I can't think of a single good reason for her to ask or for your husband to even consider it.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Her job is having some kind of event and she asked him to be her date. I'm not pissed off that she asked, I'm pissed off that DH is actually considering it! I'm sure there are other men she can ask, why my husband? I'm not trying to be petty, but I'm close! I can't believe DH didn't flat out tell her no! Ugh, idiot! Sorry, I needed to vent!


Op you know how people say there where never signs of the bad things to come, this is your sign to not ignore. You should be more worried than angry that your husband is considering it.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Her job is having some kind of event and she asked him to be her date. I'm not pissed off that she asked, I'm pissed off that DH is actually considering it! I'm sure there are other men she can ask, why my husband? I'm not trying to be petty, but I'm close! I can't believe DH didn't flat out tell her no! Ugh, idiot! Sorry, I needed to vent!


Op you know how people say there where never signs of the bad things to come, this is your sign to not ignore. You should be more worried than angry that your husband is considering it.

Excuse my typos
Anonymous
Why does either of them think this is okay?

What is the backstory? Why did they split? How long ago?
Anonymous
Were you the other woman before you were the wife?
Anonymous
What???!
Anonymous
The only way I see this making sense is if he knows a lot of her colleagues and would like to see them. But I'd think it was weird if one of my coworkers brought her ex to an event.
Anonymous
Maybe she lied at work and never told them she divorced!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Why does either of them think this is okay?

What is the backstory? Why did they split? How long ago?


+1 For sure!
Anonymous
Why does she really need a date at all?

Seriously. What archaic event is this? She should be able to come alone, or bring a male or female friend, or yeah....just go alone!
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