Do you know your spouses fantasies?

[Anonymous]

Do you know your spouses fantasies? Do you care what they are?

[Anonymous]

No and No.

Why are you people so hyper sexed all the time ? You don't have outside hobbies ?

[Anonymous]

Yes. And he's had it fulfilled

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No and No.

Why are you people so hyper sexed all the time ? You don't have outside hobbies ?

Wow, someone asking a simple question makes them hyper sexed?

[Anonymous]

Yes, and he knows mine. We have tried some of them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No and No.

Why are you people so hyper sexed all the time ? You don't have outside hobbies ?

Why are you so undersexed? Hopefully your spouse is of a similar mindset. Otherwise...

[Anonymous]

Not really. I know the basic, vanilla ones of my DW but she hasn't/won't share or doesn't have anything out of the ordinary

[Anonymous]

Yes, to be spanked over my lap.

[Anonymous]

No and no.

[Anonymous]

Yes and sometimes. I try to fulfill them. He doesn't know mine. He thinks he does and would probably say I'm fulfilled, but he cares so little about what I want, I won't make myself vulnerable by telling him more than he already knows.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes and sometimes. I try to fulfill them. He doesn't know mine. He thinks he does and would probably say I'm fulfilled, but he cares so little about what I want, I won't make myself vulnerable by telling him more than he already knows.

That will show him!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes and sometimes. I try to fulfill them. He doesn't know mine. He thinks he does and would probably say I'm fulfilled, but he cares so little about what I want, I won't make myself vulnerable by telling him more than he already knows.

That will show him!

She's not trying to show him, she's trying to protect herself. Not a healthy dynamic, but it doesn't sound remotely vindictive.

[Anonymous]

Trust me, you don't. The really weird shit stays inside.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes and sometimes. I try to fulfill them. He doesn't know mine. He thinks he does and would probably say I'm fulfilled, but he cares so little about what I want, I won't make myself vulnerable by telling him more than he already knows.

That will show him!

She's not trying to show him, she's trying to protect herself. Not a healthy dynamic, but it doesn't sound remotely vindictive.

Thank you. You're absolutely right. I could tell him, and he'd reject them and hurt my feelings, or I can just not share them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Trust me, you don't. The really weird shit stays inside.

Good!