The Five school districts with Title IX violations, how much money do they stand to lose?

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Many kids are already uncomfortable with the way they are! So while we spend millions of dollars to defend the comfort of “only 3 or so” kids (who are already allowed to use the teachers bathrooms in many schools) the vast majority of kids are highly uncomfortable with the current design. Asking to make the current design basically co-ed is totally tone deaf.

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Anonymous wrote:This bathroom issue is ridiculous! At my DCs public elementary all the kids use the same bathroom (boys, girls, trans, whatever). That's what stall doors are for. The main door (into the larger bathroom area/sink area) is open, so teachers, etc. can monitor, if needed, to make sure kids wash their hands.

There are trans kids in elementary school?

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Anonymous wrote:This bathroom issue is ridiculous! At my DCs public elementary all the kids use the same bathroom (boys, girls, trans, whatever). That's what stall doors are for. The main door (into the larger bathroom area/sink area) is open, so teachers, etc. can monitor, if needed, to make sure kids wash their hands.

Guessing they don’t have issues like menstruating all over the toilet seat and boys getting unexpected hard ons. Sorry not to be crass but Jesus who cares about your toddlers.

I think you need help, you sound unduly obsessed with sexualizing minors.

News flash: minors can and do commit sexual assault.

PP here and my concerns about gender based bathrooms are less about fear of sexual assault. I’m more concerned about a lack of privacy for sexes based on biological differences between them; specifically, allowing teens a private space to deal with biologically male/female issues. I’m not dismissing sexual assault concerns. Also, ideally, private individual bathrooms are the holy grail but retrofitting all schools and in light of safety concerns that’s not realistic.

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Again please explain your privacy concerns when kids can go into a stall in a bathroom and close the door.

I'm not the pp you quoted, but bathroom stall doors do not offer much privacy. There are usually huge gaps.

This is a weird take, are you peering through those gaps, PP? I have literally never had an issue with privacy in a stall.

Not a weird take at all. The gaps PP is referring to do create a problem… Elementary kids are always peeping through them and older kids harass kids through them. And g*d forbid when phones are added to the mix. So not a weird take. It’s clearly a statement of someone who’s been around kids in school bathrooms. I don’t think you understand the reality.

This. This is the second time someone here is unfairly ridiculed for mentioning the large gaps in the doors, but they are a reality, and the ridicule doesn’t fool anyone who has kids in MS and HS.

Well I have kids in high school. They used to be in middle school. I have used the bathrooms many times in both their high and middle schools. They all have normal stalls. Never seen large gaps. What school has these supposedly large gaps?

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Anonymous wrote:This bathroom issue is ridiculous! At my DCs public elementary all the kids use the same bathroom (boys, girls, trans, whatever). That's what stall doors are for. The main door (into the larger bathroom area/sink area) is open, so teachers, etc. can monitor, if needed, to make sure kids wash their hands.

Guessing they don’t have issues like menstruating all over the toilet seat and boys getting unexpected hard ons. Sorry not to be crass but Jesus who cares about your toddlers.

I think you need help, you sound unduly obsessed with sexualizing minors.

News flash: minors can and do commit sexual assault.

PP here and my concerns about gender based bathrooms are less about fear of sexual assault. I’m more concerned about a lack of privacy for sexes based on biological differences between them; specifically, allowing teens a private space to deal with biologically male/female issues. I’m not dismissing sexual assault concerns. Also, ideally, private individual bathrooms are the holy grail but retrofitting all schools and in light of safety concerns that’s not realistic.

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Again please explain your privacy concerns when kids can go into a stall in a bathroom and close the door.

I'm not the pp you quoted, but bathroom stall doors do not offer much privacy. There are usually huge gaps.

This is a weird take, are you peering through those gaps, PP? I have literally never had an issue with privacy in a stall.

Not a weird take at all. The gaps PP is referring to do create a problem… Elementary kids are always peeping through them and older kids harass kids through them. And g*d forbid when phones are added to the mix. So not a weird take. It’s clearly a statement of someone who’s been around kids in school bathrooms. I don’t think you understand the reality.

This. This is the second time someone here is unfairly ridiculed for mentioning the large gaps in the doors, but they are a reality, and the ridicule doesn’t fool anyone who has kids in MS and HS.

Well I have kids in high school. They used to be in middle school. I have used the bathrooms many times in both their high and middle schools. They all have normal stalls. Never seen large gaps. What school has these supposedly large gaps?

I mean, the bathroom pictured here is pretty typical. Where do your kids go to school that their stalls don’t have gaps?

https://www.schoolfix.com/the-simplest-checklist-for-school-bathroom-maintenance

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Anonymous wrote:This bathroom issue is ridiculous! At my DCs public elementary all the kids use the same bathroom (boys, girls, trans, whatever). That's what stall doors are for. The main door (into the larger bathroom area/sink area) is open, so teachers, etc. can monitor, if needed, to make sure kids wash their hands.

There are trans kids in elementary school?

I’m going to guess you don’t have young kids in school these days.

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Anonymous wrote:This bathroom issue is ridiculous! At my DCs public elementary all the kids use the same bathroom (boys, girls, trans, whatever). That's what stall doors are for. The main door (into the larger bathroom area/sink area) is open, so teachers, etc. can monitor, if needed, to make sure kids wash their hands.

There are trans kids in elementary school?

I’m going to guess you don’t have young kids in school these days.

Taught for years. Probably over 500 six year olds. Never had one tell me he/she was the opposite sex. It has been a while since I taught.

Please explain how this happened.