You have very strong opinions on this topic but can’t be bothered to read the only official public statement detailing the allegations in this matter, which was already posted in the thread a few pages back. Gtfoh. |
Agree. And Goulet’s email also mentions that DCPS said it would assess kids in 1st and might send them to K if necessary. I still think this is not right if the child had an IEP - the decision to redshirt should have been made in that context (even though as I understand it, redshirting is not an IEP accommodation per se). But for kids who just attempt to enroll in K past the age cutoff (because they came from another state, stayed home, or were in PK an extra year) it makes some sense for them to go into 1st then make a decision. |
Nothing has been posted that answers these questions |
I can’t believe there is this much hoopla over starting your kid in kindergarten when they are five or when they are six. I’m very glad I live in a school district that allows the parents to make the decision for themselves. |
This. Unfortunately there are striver parents that have the impression that a kid starting kindergarten later will steal all opportunities from other kids. Other lunatics in the thread imagine these boys will turn into rapists that will molest their studios 13 yo girl because they are in the same class. No joke! These people need some serious mental health treatment. |
The parent who has been most outspoken about this admits that she wanted to redshirt her child and assumed she could because she had done the same thing with their older sibling. There has been zero suggestion that that child has or needs an IEP and I think a poster in this thread is just making things up. Also, at least one of the parents wasn't in DC last year and so definitely did not have a previous deferral form. Also, none of the emergency legislation requries any of these things -- so even if you think these particular parents (or some of them) deserve a break for whatever reason, principal's discretion (which is the status quo) is 100% not what they are pushing for. I think there are just tons of fake facts floating around. |
I think it’s sad parents and preschools aren’t preparing kids. |
These kids who are held back for maturity need mental health treatment as do their parents to better met their needs. |
None of these kids have special needs. They have lazy parents who want it easier on themselves and cannot bother working with their kids. |
I’ll start with a caveat that I don’t want to stereotype or paint with a broad brush, however many immigrant parents bring an extremely unhealthy competitive background. To the point of assuming everyone is in direct competition and everyone is scheming to get an unfair advantage however minute.
Also in these cultures there is a broad ignorance about mental health issues and many of these posters exhibit troublesome paranoia traits that have little anchoring in reality. I’m sympathetic to these people whom were active posters in this thread, but they end up hurting people around them including their own kids. It’s important to bring awareness and perspective. |
PP here, and before I show myself out, I will note that you are misreading that "official public statement" which is not actually an official statement but a campaign statement by the Ward 3 SBOE rep who is working WITH the parents asking for this exception and has drafted "emergency legislation" that would allow them to send their kid's to K. But in any case, his statement does not say that the parents received IEPs last year with an enrollment waiver. Rather, he mentions that some districts in Maryland and Virginia both have flexible enrollment policies that enable parents to obtain enrollment waivers should they want to delay kindergarten for 5 yr olds with summer birthdays. However this system does not exist in DC, and there is no indiction that any of the parents now asking to enroll their 6 year olds in kindergarten spoke to DCPS prior to making the decision to keep their kids in private PK last year, or received IEPs or even a diagnosis of developmental delays that could be used for one. On the contrary, the parents have presented from the beginning of this mess that they assumed they would be able to enroll their children in K at age 6 based on the actions of a prior principal at Lafayette. They have never indicated that their children have special needs that would necessitate a late start -- their contention has always been that they simply assumed they could get one and were surprised/angered when the new principal did not extend the same leeway. So maybe actually I'll stay in the thread, since you seem to be inventing facts to suit your arguments, just so we can make sure we're all be truthful about what is happening here. |
Many parents bring an extremely unhealthy competitive background. To the point of assuming everyone is in direct competition and everyone is scheming to get an unfair advantage however minute.
There is a broad ignorance about mental health issues and many of these posters exhibit troublesome paranoia traits that have little anchoring in reality. I’m sympathetic to these people whom were active posters in this thread, but they end up hurting people around them including their own kids. It’s important to bring awareness and perspective. |
Yeah this is the first I'm hearing too. The one parent in public statements said they expected to be able to do based on past precedent with an older child so I'm very confused. Absolutely agree no waivers should have been rescinded. It sounds like maybe DCPS did something terrible, like rescinding waivers, and possibly other parents are jumping on this to also get a redshirt that they expected but was not given? The way this has been rolled out publicly, possibly conflating two very different things, is not helping anyone. |
I think it's entirely possible there is one person who received a waiver that was rescinded. Also possible as a PP mentions that people are misinterpreting Goulet's newsletter to say that's the case when actually it's examples of other districts who allow it. But that's not the original story from the parent leading the charge publicly about their own kid. It's not in their testimony, either. It's nowhere in the original press coverage. So if that is the case, and this happened to a family, that's both reprehensible on the part of DCPS and also on the parents using that particular family to create their own personal rule carve out and generate sympathy for themselves from a case that is not at all related. |
Are you trying to diagnose anonymous posters on a message board as clinically paranoid? I admit I think the comments about older boys are a bit of a reach but good grief trying to make yourself feel better by saying parents are mentally ill because they disagree with you is very low. |