Would you lie years later to an ex?
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Anonymous
| I saw an ex three years after breaking up that I had always suspected cheated on me. Somehow discussion led to the past and I ended up asking him if he had been unfaithful and I would've understood in some way as towards the end I had moved out for several months before we officially broke up. He still maintains he never cheated. Trust his word finally? |
Anonymous
| No |
Anonymous
No, don't believe him? What's the point of lying now? |
Anonymous
Correct. Some people really stick to a story. And who really cares at this point? |
Anonymous
| One would hope time and character would allow for the truth |
Anonymous
| Sure, why not. He has no reason to lie now. And there is no harm in believing him, since he is not in your life and can't harm you. |
Anonymous
| If he lied before, though, it would just be easier to keep lying. He wouldn't have to see the look on your face when you mentally acknowledged that he was a cheater and a disappointment. Just saying. |
Anonymous
| OP, choose to believe him, choose to not believe him ; either way stop dragging that dead horse around. Seems to me you are looking for a specific answer, whether it's the truth or not, so you need to work on why that answer is so important to you, three years after the fact. |
Anonymous
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No reason to come clean now. He didn't want to get into the details then and he sure as heck has no reason to get into the details now.
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Anonymous
Because betrayal is painful and healing comes from the truth |
Anonymous
| I would love to tell my old boyfriend that I cheated on him toward the end of the relationship. He was such an ass would love to rub it in his face. I don't believe this guy though. |
Anonymous
+1 |
Anonymous
| If he lied, he'll continue to lie about it. |
Anonymous
| I wouldn't ask. It doesn't matter now. |
Anonymous
| Don't ask don't tell |