Women did you ever suspect your partner's child wasn't his? Was paternity proven?

[Anonymous]

I found out years later my dh's child wasn't his, didn't matter because that envelope of time had passed. My dh stupidly signed the BC without establishing paternity from a ex gf. It was something I suspected right off the bat, but later on when dh said she cheated on him with her ex and after seeing pics of that guy he totally looked like dh's son. In short, there was no doubt.
When I told my best friend all this, she confided that one of her kids was a ex boyfriend, not her husband's who never found out. I was just floored, and shocked because she never told me that before.

Do we need to DNA every child at birth? I feel bad for the kids, but shouldn't this be determined upon birth? My dh had to pay support for another guy's kid for 9 years.

[Anonymous]

Hahahahahaha women would never allow for mandatory paternity testing.

Something line 15% of kids being born are illegitimate where the husband got cucked and doesn't know.

[Anonymous]

This actually happened to a good friend of mine in my hometown (for real). He ended up raising the baby as his own for a year before finding out the baby was his best friend's.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I found out years later my dh's child wasn't his, didn't matter because that envelope of time had passed. My dh stupidly signed the BC without establishing paternity from a ex gf. It was something I suspected right off the bat, but later on when dh said she cheated on him with her ex and after seeing pics of that guy he totally looked like dh's son. In short, there was no doubt.
When I told my best friend all this, she confided that one of her kids was a ex boyfriend, not her husband's who never found out. I was just floored, and shocked because she never told me that before.

Do we need to DNA every child at birth? I feel bad for the kids, but shouldn't this be determined upon birth? My dh had to pay support for another guy's kid for 9 years.

Wow how does she live with herself?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hahahahahaha women would never allow for mandatory paternity testing.

Something line 15% of kids being born are illegitimate where the husband got cucked and doesn't know.

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I would hope it's not that high, but honestly if I were a guy married or single I would put that through the court if it was a break up or divorce.

I refused to cover a exes lie when we had our own kids. Our kids know that's not dad's child, and dad dropped the ball. It does make me mad because he should have known better. I mean who are you going to pin it on, the guy who doesn't work much or the other one that has a great job. She claimed my husband, lol. This woman had two illegitimate kids, two guys and no rock!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I found out years later my dh's child wasn't his, didn't matter because that envelope of time had passed. My dh stupidly signed the BC without establishing paternity from a ex gf. It was something I suspected right off the bat, but later on when dh said she cheated on him with her ex and after seeing pics of that guy he totally looked like dh's son. In short, there was no doubt.
When I told my best friend all this, she confided that one of her kids was a ex boyfriend, not her husband's who never found out. I was just floored, and shocked because she never told me that before.

Do we need to DNA every child at birth? I feel bad for the kids, but shouldn't this be determined upon birth? My dh had to pay support for another guy's kid for 9 years.

Wow how does she live with herself?

I think we are living in a society with many who do not possess a conscious.

[Anonymous]

I think every child should have dna done. Why not, we do blood tests and everything else. This dilemma would never happen.

Earlier in this century a woman could put any guy on a birth certificate and he was the father. If I wanted Michael Jackson as the dad, his name would be on there. Now we know the problems this has caused..thankfully.

[Anonymous]

Pretty sure I've seen reference to scientific evidence of a 3% cuckold rate. The higher numbers are based on populations that sought out a DNA test.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think every child should have dna done. Why not, we do blood tests and everything else. This dilemma would never happen.

Earlier in this century a woman could put any guy on a birth certificate and he was the father. If I wanted Michael Jackson as the dad, his name would be on there. Now we know the problems this has caused..thankfully.

You can sometimes tell by blood types.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hahahahahaha women would never allow for mandatory paternity testing.

Something line 15% of kids being born are illegitimate where the husband got cucked and doesn't know.

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I would hope it's not that high, but honestly if I were a guy married or single I would put that through the court if it was a break up or divorce.

I refused to cover a exes lie when we had our own kids. Our kids know that's not dad's child, and dad dropped the ball. It does make me mad because he should have known better. I mean who are you going to pin it on, the guy who doesn't work much or the other one that has a great job. She claimed my husband, lol. This woman had two illegitimate kids, two guys and no rock!

You sound a little jealous of this woman.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think every child should have dna done. Why not, we do blood tests and everything else. This dilemma would never happen.

Earlier in this century a woman could put any guy on a birth certificate and he was the father. If I wanted Michael Jackson as the dad, his name would be on there. Now we know the problems this has caused..thankfully.

You can sometimes tell by blood types.

That's how they did it in the old days, but no it wasn't reliable.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hahahahahaha women would never allow for mandatory paternity testing.

Something line 15% of kids being born are illegitimate where the husband got cucked and doesn't know.

[/quote

I would hope it's not that high, but honestly if I were a guy married or single I would put that through the court if it was a break up or divorce.

I refused to cover a exes lie when we had our own kids. Our kids know that's not dad's child, and dad dropped the ball. It does make me mad because he should have known better. I mean who are you going to pin it on, the guy who doesn't work much or the other one that has a great job. She claimed my husband, lol. This woman had two illegitimate kids, two guys and no rock!

You sound a little jealous of this woman.

I think this woman's scam was exposed, probably something she didn't like.

[Anonymous]

Pp who the kid was 9 when all this was found out, did you ever once consider the child's and "Dad's" emotions before you thought of the $$ you weren't getting? Piece of work you!

[Anonymous]

They have dna kits all over now. I would do that. Too bad who doesn't like it, the truth needs to come out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Pp who the kid was 9 when all this was found out, did you ever once consider the child's and "Dad's" emotions before you thought of the $$ you weren't getting? Piece of work you!

LOL The only one to blame is the bamboozler...not the victims you nimrod!