It's been 1 yr since I've had sex

[Anonymous]

Baby is 3 months now . We haven't had sex since the baby was conceived 1 year ago . It only took 1 try and about 5 minutes to conceive this baby . I'm not feeling horny at all . I'm nursing and recovering from a c section . Incision still hurts . Dh likes to comment that I look sexy when I am pumping I don't feel sexy at all .

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Baby is 3 months now . We haven't had sex since the baby was conceived 1 year ago . It only took 1 try and about 5 minutes to conceive this baby . I'm not feeling horny at all . I'm nursing and recovering from a c section . Incision still hurts . Dh likes to comment that I look sexy when I am pumping I don't feel sexy at all .

Nobody cares Miss I'm not horny.

[Anonymous]

Why didn't you have sex while you were pregnant?

Is your husband upset about this? Was the sex before conception sex good?

I advise just getting back on the horse, sometimes you need to jump into the deep end to remember how to swim. Use lube and try to let yourself go and embrace it. Might not be awesome the first time but it will improve.

[Anonymous]

If you dont want your husband to leave you, do it anyway. Not having sex for a year is technically spousal abuse. You are an abuser. We all do things we dont like. Frankly, i dont like it either, havent for years, but i try to do it once a week anyway. Its your duty.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you dont want your husband to leave you, do it anyway. Not having sex for a year is technically spousal abuse. You are an abuser. We all do things we dont like. Frankly, i dont like it either, havent for years, but i try to do it once a week anyway. Its your duty.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why didn't you have sex while you were pregnant?

Is your husband upset about this? Was the sex before conception sex good?

I advise just getting back on the horse, sometimes you need to jump into the deep end to remember how to swim. Use lube and try to let yourself go and embrace it. Might not be awesome the first time but it will improve. [/quote

My husband didn't want to hurt the baby .

[Anonymous]

I feel like two immature and ignorant people should not raise a baby.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why didn't you have sex while you were pregnant?

Is your husband upset about this? Was the sex before conception sex good?

I advise just getting back on the horse, sometimes you need to jump into the deep end to remember how to swim. Use lube and try to let yourself go and embrace it. Might not be awesome the first time but it will improve.

My husband didn't want to hurt the baby .

What??? That's craziness! Your husband needs to go read a book. But you both need to get back on the horse, slow and steady and earnestly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you dont want your husband to leave you, do it anyway. Not having sex for a year is technically spousal abuse. You are an abuser. We all do things we dont like. Frankly, i dont like it either, havent for years, but i try to do it once a week anyway. Its your duty.

Show me a state or federal statute listing lack of sex as a chargeable offense. A majority of married people would have criminal records if your bogus contention was actually true.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I feel like two immature and ignorant people should not raise a baby.

I feel like you need to grow up instead of venting your spleen at a random internet stranger.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why didn't you have sex while you were pregnant?

Is your husband upset about this? Was the sex before conception sex good?

I advise just getting back on the horse, sometimes you need to jump into the deep end to remember how to swim. Use lube and try to let yourself go and embrace it. Might not be awesome the first time but it will improve.

I went to my home country for 2 months and then when I came back I wasn't feel up to it. DH thought it would harm the baby. I told him its not a big deal but he wanted to be careful anyway.

[Anonymous]

You probably should continue to abstain so you two whackos don't conceive again. Carry on with current plan.

[Anonymous]

Yep a year can easily turn in to 5 and 5 can turn into the rest of your life. The brain is building and deleting connections all the time. If you did not use the connections(ie have sex), it's not coming back on it own.

[Anonymous]

Do either of you actually want to have sex? With each other? I'm not really seeing the desire from either of you.

[Anonymous]

How is your DH coping with this? No man can "hold it" for a year.