It's been 1 yr since I've had sex

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, you haven't answered whether or not this is a problem for you or your husband. Do either of you want to have sex with the other?

I mentioned he has been hinting at it since we came home from the hospital . Yes he does want to .

So then do it. Sex isnt all about you. Its your duty. Just get it over with, like something you check off a list. A week later, repeat.

[Anonymous]

I am coming off of two seperate long stints of no sex. The first was no sex for roughly 2.5-3.5 years after first baby was born. The second stint was another 6 months during a rough patch.

I can tell you it's done major damage to who I am as a spouse, and as a person in regards to my emotions and my desires. I don't think I could handle another gap, even if it is only 1 month.

So stop now and fix this. It's not worth it. I love my wife, but I don't know if I will ever be the same as a result of the rejection and loneliness she caused me to feel.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am coming off of two seperate long stints of no sex. The first was no sex for roughly 2.5-3.5 years after first baby was born. The second stint was another 6 months during a rough patch.

I can tell you it's done major damage to who I am as a spouse, and as a person in regards to my emotions and my desires. I don't think I could handle another gap, even if it is only 1 month.

So stop now and fix this. It's not worth it. I love my wife, but I don't know if I will ever be the same as a result of the rejection and loneliness she caused me to feel.

I'm sorry that happened to you but it sounds like he rejected her for several months, then there was a medical reason for them not to have sex. She hasn't shut him down for a full year.