My guess is that "less segregationist but still resource hoarding" isn't what the author would consider "integrationist." DCUM is a forum for rich white people. Maybe it's less segregationist than other spaces dominated by rich white people but it sure ain't integrated. Change the space, change the outcomes. |
I love the idea that DC schools are fundamentally driven by DCUM. Who knew all this idle time-wasting had so much power?! Meanwhile, I think some posters here think that the DC Public Schools Forum *is* DCUM. Did you know that if you go to other fora, many (most?) posts are from people in Maryland, Virginia, and states beyond? |
Wait wait, you seriously believe that DCUM is the source of school segregation in DC? |
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In the context of the discussion here, what does "resource hoarding" mean? We are talking about white parents potentially sending kids to majority-minority schools in order to "integrate" those schools. How is that resource hoarding?
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how is it resource hoarding to go to your neighborhood school? are you saying Brookings thinks we need to enroll our kids OOB in the worst schools? come on. |
because everything white parents do it bad, pretty much. |
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The Nice White Parents podcast is helpful on paradigm setting.
Yes, go to your local schools. No, don’t act like you are a “pioneer” or own or direct them just because you are part of the class with money, ability to donate or fundraise, etc. Act like you’re joining a group project that needs effort but NOT a new boss! Be helpful not screamy. Don’t show up and then try to create a new magic cohort for your child on day 2. Join, reach out, etc. |
hey no problem. I don’t participate in ptas at all. |
Why would I choose to do this exactly? |
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I think the point is that white parents should be seen and not heard. If you are WOTP, give up your IB preference and go EOTP to a DCPS. Don't join the PTA, but write large checks. Mouths shut, wallets open.
If you are EOTP, go to your IB. No charters. Mouths shut, wallets open. Charters should for BIPOC children only. Language immersion for BIPOC only. TAG programming for BIPOC only. Celebrate BIPOC excellence. Acknowledge white mediocrity. Coach your children to accept their own mediocrity and acknowledge BIPOC excellence. If you play the lottery, you are a racist and segregationist. If you go to school OOB to go to school WOTP, you are a racist and a segregationist. If you allow your child to go to an IB WOTP school, and your child is white, you are a racist and a segregationist. If you go private, you are a racist and a segregationist. If you move to MoCo or NoVa, obvi racist and segregationist. If you go to a majority BIPOC school. and advocate for TAG, immersion, special programming - you are a racist and a segregationist. If you go to a majority BIPOC school and do not adhere to "mouths shut, wallets open" you are a racist and segregationist. If you encourage others to attend high-performing schools dominated by BIPOC children, you are resource hoarding, because you are racist. If you use the phrase "hidden gems," you are racist and encourage resource hoarding. If any of this seems unfair - your white fragility is a fatal condition. |
In the podcast you’d do it because of .... resource scarcity. You’d do it because you couldn’t get into another school and needed a place for your kid. I actually have seen plenty of folks here that valiantly tried this approach either due to lottery strikeout or strong almost martyristic belief in traditional public schools, and grow weary after a few years and bow out. I think, in other words, this has been done. When it succeeds it draws, shocker, more white kids to the school and you end up gentrifying the school anyways, think Hill. Everyone is mad either way of course. |
This is exactly the message we are hearing. So screw it. We will keep sending our kids to the best schools we can get and to he!! with thinking about the effect on others. |
Lol. Nailed it. |
| The best thing about the anonymity of this board is that it allows the rich white prestige-obsessed and guilt-driven parents (who work too hard to be good parents) of the DMV to express their true feelings without fear of being outcast. They talk the talk in public, but this forum shows that in private they don't walk the walk. |
You should get out more. DC is surrounded by some of the top public high schools in the whole country. |