Sean “Diddy” Combs accused of gang rape of teen girl in new lawsuit

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Im surprised Cassie didn't fight him back or cover her head when he was beating her. And she didn't try to get up.

That’s what’s more heartbreaking-she didn’t fight back - she curled into a ball to make herself as small as possible and protect her softer areas. A clear sign that she’s been abused many many times by him.

I was beaten , broken nose as a child by my father. I am 66 and still curl up to protect myself when I am scared.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Im surprised Cassie didn't fight him back or cover her head when he was beating her. And she didn't try to get up.

That’s what’s more heartbreaking-she didn’t fight back - she curled into a ball to make herself as small as possible and protect her softer areas. A clear sign that she’s been abused many many times by him.

I was beaten , broken nose as a child by my father. I am 66 and still curl up to protect myself when I am scared.

I am sorry, you deserved to be loved and protected by your father.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Im surprised Cassie didn't fight him back or cover her head when he was beating her. And she didn't try to get up.

That’s what’s more heartbreaking-she didn’t fight back - she curled into a ball to make herself as small as possible and protect her softer areas. A clear sign that she’s been abused many many times by him.

I was beaten , broken nose as a child by my father. I am 66 and still curl up to protect myself when I am scared.

I am sorry, you deserved to be loved and protected by your father.

+1 hugs PP.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Im surprised Cassie didn't fight him back or cover her head when he was beating her. And she didn't try to get up.

As PP already said, she'd already been beaten in the hotel room and was trying to escape. But did you see the force that he used when he threw her on the ground? She probably had the wind knocked out of her or was stunned, or both. You don't just knocked to the ground like that, and then kicked, and are ready to fight. You're hurt. You're stunned. You're scared. What is the matter with you?

What is the matter with me?

I'm a survivor of severe physical domestic abuse. Natural reaction is to cover your head.

Well she said in her documents she was often drugged. In her lawsuit she said he had her drugged with so many things. He forced her to have sex with men he raped her and he was beating her. I’m not surprised she didn’t fight back.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wonder if Diddy ever put hands on JLo.

Is this some kind of slang for being physically abusive?

“Putting hands on” and keeping someone’s name “out your mouth” are two expressions I’ve only seen on Lipstick Alley.

Have you really never heard someone say, "Keep my name out of your mouth?" I don't remember a time when these terms weren't used IRL.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wonder if Diddy ever put hands on JLo.

Is this some kind of slang for being physically abusive?

“Putting hands on” and keeping someone’s name “out your mouth” are two expressions I’ve only seen on Lipstick Alley.

Have you really never heard someone say, "Keep my name out of your mouth?" I don't remember a time when these terms weren't used IRL.

Will Smith said that at the Oscars. “Keep my wife’s name out your mouth” after he slapped Chris Rock.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wonder if Diddy ever put hands on JLo.

Is this some kind of slang for being physically abusive?

“Putting hands on” and keeping someone’s name “out your mouth” are two expressions I’ve only seen on Lipstick Alley.

Have you really never heard someone say, "Keep my name out of your mouth?" I don't remember a time when these terms weren't used IRL.

Will Smith said that at the Oscars. “Keep my wife’s name out your mouth” after he slapped Chris Rock.

Exactly! I guess some people really do live under a rock or aren't exposed much outside of their own communities.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wonder if Diddy ever put hands on JLo.

Is this some kind of slang for being physically abusive?

“Putting hands on” and keeping someone’s name “out your mouth” are two expressions I’ve only seen on Lipstick Alley.

Have you really never heard someone say, "Keep my name out of your mouth?" I don't remember a time when these terms weren't used IRL.

Only when Will Smith said it at the Oscars or else online. Not among people I know.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wonder if Diddy ever put hands on JLo.

Is this some kind of slang for being physically abusive?

“Putting hands on” and keeping someone’s name “out your mouth” are two expressions I’ve only seen on Lipstick Alley.

Have you really never heard someone say, "Keep my name out of your mouth?" I don't remember a time when these terms weren't used IRL.

Only when Will Smith said it at the Oscars or else online. Not among people I know.

Will Smith said, "Out your f--in@#$%
mouth." Didn't use correct English.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wonder if Diddy ever put hands on JLo.

Is this some kind of slang for being physically abusive?

“Putting hands on” and keeping someone’s name “out your mouth” are two expressions I’ve only seen on Lipstick Alley.

Have you really never heard someone say, "Keep my name out of your mouth?" I don't remember a time when these terms weren't used IRL.

Just about every housewife on Bravo has said this lol

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wonder if Diddy ever put hands on JLo.

Is this some kind of slang for being physically abusive?

“Putting hands on” and keeping someone’s name “out your mouth” are two expressions I’ve only seen on Lipstick Alley.

Have you really never heard someone say, "Keep my name out of your mouth?" I don't remember a time when these terms weren't used IRL.

Only when Will Smith said it at the Oscars or else online. Not among people I know.

I've been hearing these phrases IRL pretty much my whole life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wonder if Diddy ever put hands on JLo.

Is this some kind of slang for being physically abusive?

“Putting hands on” and keeping someone’s name “out your mouth” are two expressions I’ve only seen on Lipstick Alley.

Have you really never heard someone say, "Keep my name out of your mouth?" I don't remember a time when these terms weren't used IRL.

Only when Will Smith said it at the Oscars or else online. Not among people I know.

I've been hearing these phrases IRL pretty much my whole life.

Language varies by geography, race, age and class. More at 11!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wonder if Diddy ever put hands on JLo.

Is this some kind of slang for being physically abusive?

“Putting hands on” and keeping someone’s name “out your mouth” are two expressions I’ve only seen on Lipstick Alley.

Have you really never heard someone say, "Keep my name out of your mouth?" I don't remember a time when these terms weren't used IRL.

Just about every housewife on Bravo has said this lol

There are a lot of tacky, uneducated folks in this old world.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Im surprised Cassie didn't fight him back or cover her head when he was beating her. And she didn't try to get up.

As PP already said, she'd already been beaten in the hotel room and was trying to escape. But did you see the force that he used when he threw her on the ground? She probably had the wind knocked out of her or was stunned, or both. You don't just knocked to the ground like that, and then kicked, and are ready to fight. You're hurt. You're stunned. You're scared. What is the matter with you?

He had already punched her in the face, giving her a black eye, in the room. She probably thought he was going to kill her so she curled up to protect her vital organs. It's instinctual.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wonder if Diddy ever put hands on JLo.

Is this some kind of slang for being physically abusive?

“Putting hands on” and keeping someone’s name “out your mouth” are two expressions I’ve only seen on Lipstick Alley.

A friend of mine uses the “put hands on” term. It’s urban slang (FWIW she grew up in a MD working class suburb). Honestly I think it makes “beat me up” or “hit me” sound less violent — sort of like ‘passed away’ softens ‘died.’ So I really don’t like the phrase.

“Put hands on” is a Southern thing.

Put the paws on someone is a reaaally Southern thing.

Southerners have a weird way of not saying offensive things so bluntly . They use other terms maybe in a way to downplay abuse or bad/uncomfortable subjects