She was a nobody in 1998. Probably yes. She didn’t even put out her J Lo album that gave her famous nickname. She wasn’t J Lo yet and in fact that name itself or the idea of getting a different name may have been from Puffy/Diddy himself |
Doubt it. People say that because she’s pretty but Beyonce acts like Jay Z is her first . Her parents never let her outside. They wanted her performing, rehearsing or learning how to dance and sing in heels at all times. She was laser focused on one thing: getting a record deal. I don’t think school or boys were her priority |
As PP already said, she'd already been beaten in the hotel room and was trying to escape. But did you see the force that he used when he threw her on the ground? She probably had the wind knocked out of her or was stunned, or both. You don't just knocked to the ground like that, and then kicked, and are ready to fight. You're hurt. You're stunned. You're scared. What is the matter with you? |
+1 absolutely disgusting. PP should stfu. Perhaps she thought he was going to kill her and her strategy was to play dead so he would stop. |
“Putting hands on” and keeping someone’s name “out your mouth” are two expressions I’ve only seen on Lipstick Alley. |
What is the matter with me? I'm a survivor of severe physical domestic abuse. Natural reaction is to cover your head. |
I think he's closeted gay (at least publicly), so he takes out his anger on women. I wouldn't be surprised if he ends up coming out of the closet in an attempt to repair his image. |
A friend of mine uses the “put hands on” term. It’s urban slang (FWIW she grew up in a MD working class suburb). Honestly I think it makes “beat me up” or “hit me” sound less violent — sort of like ‘passed away’ softens ‘died.’ So I really don’t like the phrase. |
NP and I am sorry you experience that level of abuse. I would caution anyone from assuming a natural reaction to any dangerous situation- people go into survival mode and respond in many different ways. It’s like fight or flight. Some people also just freeze. |
That’s what’s more heartbreaking-she didn’t fight back - she curled into a ball to make herself as small as possible and protect her softer areas. A clear sign that she’s been abused many many times by him. |
I know now why you are anonymous.. |
I do vaguely remember them becoming "J Lo and P Diddy" around the same time, so I think you might be right. |
I wonder if the homosexual tendencies may just be a result of him being raped by men on his way up and continuing a cycle of abuse. |
Nah, has always been a DL brother. |
So are you and so is everyone else here. |