
Funny, because my kids have played in just about every single league mentioned on this forum, from ODSL-WAGS-CCL-VPL-NPL-EDP-Super Y-ECNL |
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Your problem is that you contradict yourself with obtuse statements. Your other problem is you don't acknowledge all the problems with CCL for younger players (yes, you are an unwitting champion of sorts based on the misstatements you make about its quality and structure) like most do when they knowingly decide to accept its negatives as a compromise for a great coach. You live in a world of 20-20 Braille with blinders on over the effective role that parents, players, and clubs have had in getting CCL to change its egregious travel format that would be fixed by ideas like NextGen. You really don't understand what any posters have been telling you. It is about improving a bad product for your DC so that a great coach doesn't have to lose great players and chemistry due to some families making a different compromise and leaving for NCSL teams due to the bad aspects of CCL. The good news is that the normal parental majority (of mostly complainers at our club) have made a dent in CCL and things will inevitably change. The fringe posters that want everyone to accept CCL as-is, with a pretty clear cheerleader agenda, have lost. You are a slave to your agenda in this forum. Keep embarrassing yourself and trolling every new forum member who realizes the same problem with CCL. Very sad. |
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Right, the market spoke and dictated what CCL needs to do to retain players, coaches and clubs. All I have been pushing is to do what is right for your kid and your family. If parents simply focus on that, and that alone clubs will respond. Where the things I have said have been complicated with those who think a single mega league model is the answer. To this I disagree for the simple reason that if the model sucks, as you feel CCL does, you have no choice, no option. But, since there are choices you simply need to worry about what is best for your kid and your kid alone. Ranting against a league does not have the impact as voting with your feet and letting the Club and league know on your way out why you are leaving. But some people are accepting of the way their situation is and accept the compromise for their own personal reason. That is their choice. I have maintained this position throughout and it is pretty simple position to follow. I have been respectful for the most part and have only stated my opinion and nothing more. You are free to disagree with me but that I see it differently than you does not make me either obtuse or a troll. My kids have played in all of the leagues so I have a feel for the general landscape as well as the strengths and weakness of them all. |
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^^I agree with your point that the CCL guy seems incapable/unwilling to grasp many of the negatives that CCL has inflicted on soccer around here, but I really wish you and everyone else would stop the accusations of trolling. Trolling is writing something merely to start a flame war--it is not accurate to apply it to someone who sincerely believes what he is saying, however wrong or shortsighted we may think that belief is.
It's beyond tedious to read all these trolling accusations. I'd encourage anyone who finds a given discussion annoying or repetitive to either ignore it or post a new topic they think is more interesting. |
...ok, can we just ignore ccl guy now who's kids as played every league in creation?!! ... he is not obtuse, doesn't make obtuse statements....and doesn't troll newbies to CCL, their grandma's, or anyone else with sarcastic/ mocking teasing ... he doesn't do that, ok. . . .
...we all got it!!! |
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In fact I have never even said that any of your complaints about CCL are even wrong or that your positions are wrong. I am only stating my opinion which is what I would do if I was in your shoes. I'd just find a better option. I'm not wasting life and development time fighting a League structure when I can simply go down the street and find something else that works just as well without the headache. |
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I have boys, but that posters sentiments mirror mine exactly. The parents and players at the U9-U11 age at our Club in CCL had such an over-inflated sense of their true talent. The teams in the brackets were not good and like he/she said: "play the same 7 clubs over and over, many of which have shaky teams. Playing the same bad teams over and over was not enjoyable." We'd finally go out to a tournament and start playing teams from outside the State or in other leagues and be demoralized. The kids would literally fall apart because it was the first time they ever got challenged/lost. In the later years, the team wouldn't even make an upper division tournament bracket or be invited to play. I disagree that parents will always do the best by their kids. In some areas, there are no other viable options. I live in a very large County and there is only 1 travel club. They monopolize every field. Zero choice. Of course, you could leave and sit in hours of traffic. The conundrum if you don't like the training is---keep paying and supplement the Club or lose all of your carpool opportunities. In this area with working parents and heavy traffic--clubs can bank on always having a paying customer no matter how poorly they are doing their job or how unhappy and grumbling the sidelines are (which is often like a thunder dome of disgust and complaints). I used to call these people "suckers", but now I sympathize with them. |
If you think that Grammy and Gramps care what league your 9 year old is in and pointing that out offends you I really don't know what to say. If you believe that pointing out that a College coach also does not care what league your kid played in when 9 years old, I also don't know what to say. I suppose sorry, but they were statements of perspective not ridicule. |
Maybe....but a Woodbridge-Gainesville combo is dfferent than a Reston- Bethesda combo....especually in traffic...too much for people to stomach |
Oh, I didn't say that it would not be painful. It seems a crazy geographic mix to me, but that is why Spirit wanted Loudoun and Arlington as well. At least stay on this side of the bridge. |
I agree that ODSL is going to have to merge and NCSL seems to be the natural partner. The SFL merger is an interesting one as it is a great "in between" league and is very well run. But SFL starts at U11, so where does that leave clubs with multiple teams that normally push them to ODSL? Also, I could see some intense parents being upset that their kids are now playing with rec players, regardless of the rec skill level or the overall competition on the field. It seems there is a need for the developmental aspect that ODSL provides clubs and players and I hope that does not get lost in the shuffle. |