Columbine was a first and not something that anyone would ever have anticipated happening at the time. The parents knew and admitted that their boys had been in trouble but they hoped that things would improve as graduation neared. With Sandy Hook, the mother was keenly aware that her son was a very sick person - she was overwhelmed by the severity of his needs and the lack of support care available to him after HS and did not know where else to turn for help. It was all on her and it was too much. I think that a part of her wanted him to kill both her and himself - just to end their suffering. The Vegas shooter was a grown man who didn't even live in the same state as his elderly mother and other family members. Not sure what they could have seen or done. The boy in this situation was a kid with mental health issues who was getting help and who did have a two parent household who appeared to be making an effort to ready him for the future. I am sure that they are destroyed over this But I obviously don't know them. |
Because the girls parents weren't Jewish, and there does not seem to be any racial or political motivation behind this? He was pissed off at his girlfriend's parents for trying to force them to breakup. |
I think that it's more likely that the type of person who is drawn to neo-nazism is the same type of person who is drawn to gun ownership (and no I'm not saying all gun owners are neo-nazis!) |
He could have brought the target with him? But, yeah, something is off with that picture. |
Actually, Columbine wasn't a first and the simple truth is that most people don't anticipate their child doing something like this even if they are disturbed. |
| The kid apparently mowed a huge Nazi sign in a yard. The neighbors wish now they had called police not just his parents. Anyone blaming the girls parents has a screw loose. They are VICTIMS of a neoNazi mentally disturbed boy. He IS to blame. Her parents were absolutely CORRECT in ending the romance, who in their right mind wants to invite hate into their home. No one. People watch your kids and nip issues like this in the bud ASAP. Wake up people. |
For like the third time now, even if there was no direct racial or political motivation (though as widely noted, the girl's mom WAS a liberal, disliked neoNazism very intensely, and he almost certainly knew that) that does not mean the NeoNazism didn't matter - it could have numbed him to violence in general, encouraged violent thoughts and feelings, and perhaps encouraged the carrying of a gun. |
| I think we can learn something from this horrible incident. These parents were not willing to listen to this boy, just a boy whose brain is still forming. They should have had faith in their daughter's ability to find her way, and they could have engaged him in conversation, given that he was knowledgable about history, in events having nothing to do with Nazism. The boy clearly had mental problems. Spending time with him and his family might have been a better way to teach her daughter that his hatred was wrong, and it might even have helped this boy see that they were not villains in his script. |
Why are talking about the girl's parents? The shooter's parents were the responsible adults in this whole scenario. |
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https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2014/mar/03/boris-johnson-radicalisation-child-abuse
Should neonazi children be removed from their parents custody, as Boris Johnson proposed for radical Islamist youths? |
I hope so. Even still, if your son is in a school for emotionally, mentally disturbed children, then you should not take him to a shooting range. Guns can be very dangerous in the hands of mentally ill people. |
You posters are crazy. |
No kidding. |
Yes, let's not discuss the boy's parents who are legally responsible for him and who likely provided the gun.
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This is sarcasm right? "Faith in their daughter's ability to find her way?" She was at a school with a 3:1 student adult ratio because while physically she was 16, she wasn't there yet in other domains and needed the support of rational adults. There is no shame in that. The mistake would be to assume just because of her age she deserves certain freedoms without considering where she is emotionally, cognitively, and behaviorally. |