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The mom is white privilege personified. She should face consequences for her abuse. |
I think these two things are being conflated. Lack of financial support is not the same things as being first generation attending college. You could be first generation attending college and have plenty of money for college (rich plumber dad!). You could also have college-educated parents that have no money = lack of financial support. The "first gen" box is clearly directed at a certain type of student that colleges are hoping to attract (e.g., a way to get around racial or other quotas). |
The prosecuter said pursuing the mom was the biggest mistake of his career. The mom is like 60 years old with a clean record and a sterling professional medical record. Meanwhile, the messy daughter is 25 and is suing everyone and mooching from people. |
Tell us you didn’t read the article without telling us you didn’t read the article. |
1) I specifically said in the post you are responding to that I was not castigating you 2) I did not demand that she does not face a single question about her credibility What I said is that the way people are discussing a girl who was so severely beaten by her mother that she was in the hospital for a week and who was assaulted by her mother's boyfriend, and who suffered some type of medical event in subsequent years is so revolting as to be difficult to read. You and I likely agree about systemic racism. I basically agree with everything you are saying about that. But, again, you seem to be mad at her for not having suffered worse. And you seem to want to interrogate her to the level a black man would be held to. And I just don't understand wanting a victim of child abuse to suffer more. Why not point the light of your racial inequity lens at her mother, who's white privilege allowed her to escape any consequences for almost killing her child. I object to the idea that this girl needs to suffer more for equality. I do find the questions about her credibility pretty appalling. Not because I think no one should be questioned, but because she has been, this was in fact litigated by the investigation offices at the time. Do you know how hard it is for a white rich person to lose custody? Speaking of privilege. Very hard. By all accounts she lives a modest life and spent her college years studying hard enough to get a Rhodes Scholarship. What do you know that you think the doctors that treated her that night don't? That the teachers who helped her don't? That her friends at the time do not know? The child protective agency never exonerated the mother, she got herself removed from the list on a technicality that CPS fought tooth and nail. So I think this extraordinarily well litigated episode of child abuse happened and do not understand why you want to question her when I would think your goal would be that this doesn't happen to anyone, not that it happens to a couple abused white kids to make up for all the black kids out there suffering too. I don't want it to happen to ANY abused kid, or any kid at all. What I meant by using her voice, is that in addition to the case about the black man who died in the caster building (an action she took that is likely the reason she's in this predicament), she has privilege afforded to her that yes, people believe her. She has people supporting her, access to legal funds, intelligence to use them all, to not allow this to be swept under the rug. And when high profile stories like this make the news, it frequently does have a waterfall effect to help others less able to fight back (of course not all and not always, not even close). She has been tarred and feathered and is likely being retraumatized by this. She could have written an apology letter, gotten her degree and gone quietly away, but she isn't, she is likely going to win multiple lawsuits and create actual change. However small. And incur great personal misery while doing it. As for the professor thing, it makes me wonder if you were ever an at risk child. This was a female professor giving her a stable place to land. There isn't even a sure statement that she was her professor at the time. There aren't a lot of options available to at risk kids who have aged out of foster care, it is telling that you frame the kindness of a trusted adult as creepy, and illustrates why frequently these kids have nowhere to go. You think it would have been better for them to pay for her apartment? What if they couldn't afford that? Then just no help at all? |
Nice grammar, illiterate fool. |
Haha. I was just going to post the exact same thing. PP needs to read the article before posting again. |
The woman laughed about her boyfriend groping her daughter. That prosecutor's judgment was way off. |
Is it a vast conspiracy by the mom, her dead boyfriend, hospitals, prosecutors, judges, Penn administration, Penn lawyers, Rhodes committee, and various reporters........... or is the common denominator an unemployed 25 year old rich white brat? |
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This situation is similar to the other college entrance scandal in that those who pled guilty got light sentences and those who went to trial got harsher ones.
So if Fierceton would stop talking and stand down there would probably be some kind of settlement. For example : keep your undergraduate degree — you were a kid and the University should have perhaps looked harder. But no on the graduate degree. You were an adult, an Ivy grad and you should have known better. Such a person should not be trusted as a therapist with patients. However if it goes to trial … First the lawyer will benefit from the publicity. But among the judge and jury it’s impossible to find someone who doesn’t have some relationship to college. Either they went and paid the bill. Or they sent their kids and paid the bill. Or they were unable to go to college because they couldn’t afford it. Also $300K+ is a lot to most people. I don’t think there will be a lot of sympathy. And the facts don’t support a strong case. I think it would end very badly for “Fierceton “. Even that name/ name change would bother some people. |
Please pardon my juvenile prose. I didn’t grow up a rich white spoiled brat at $30,000 yr elite schools, live in a surgeon’s mansion, and get a new Mercedes for my 16th birthday, and then steal a place at an Ivy League college. |
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My sister had a friend whose mom abused him. Despite repeated calls to the cops, despite evidence of bruises all over him, despite teachers calling in the abuse, despite lawyers getting called, social services and the cops did nothing. His mom also did his best to sabotage his college education by refusing info he needed for FAFSA and telling financial aid she supported him when he didn't. The mom was white, my sister's friend wasn't (his Dad had died). I have definitely seen rich white lady privilege when it comes to child abuse.
Moms like this exist and they're absolutely horrible. |
Is it a vast conspiracy by the daughter, the hospital at the time, CPS, her teachers, her school administration, her friends and their parents, her college professors and advisors......or is the common denominator a rich white privileged and embarrassed mother with a grudge who will not accept that her daughter has freed herself from her grasp? See, anyone can do that little rhetorical trick |
She’s been wronged by her mom and Penn. The rest is fallout. |
So much butthurt over a stranger. |