It doesn't make me feel bad. It makes me feel annoyed. I find passive aggressive people annoying. We all know them. People who slip their digs in with the saccharine sweet BS delivery. And please note, women do this. Not men. Just get over it and say what you mean. |
This is it exactly. People who don't want to wear a mask don't really care if others wish to. But, those who want to wear masks are often bent out of shape by others not doing so. |
| Everyone is so inside their heads on the masking issue. Most people don’t care much whether others are masked (at least when the rules say it’s entirely optional), but we’ve all read so many crazy stories about anti and pro maskers that if a masked person sees an unmasked person they get it in their head that the other person is judging them (and vice versa), and if there’s any eye contact it’s presumed to carry a judgmental message - when the reality is that these two people are probably indifferent to one another’s choice and are just on high alert because some people are hell bent on making the issue divisive. |
Well your decision not to mask does have an impact on other people. If you find it annoying when others express appreciation for those who take others' into account, that's on you. |
I don't think this is true at all. I've seen multiple comments on social media trying to convince other people to take off their masks. |
I guess you're the type who makes these comments. People smile at you but think you're insufferable. In case you're wondering. |
It happened right here on this post when I stated my family would be wearing mass until spring break. Someone responded by posting a study about why masks don’t work. If you think someone is doing something that’s worthless, what is the necessity to point it out? If your belief is correct, what harm is it that they’re wearing one anyway? If your belief is wrong, well they’ve protected themselves. Let them be. |
I tend to avoid people who sound like this on both sides. If only we actually did take each other into account and not just fight about it on anonymous message boards. |
Yes. One of my least favorite things is the person who weaves in a dig while talking about how great their choices are, when they know you have made a different choice than them. It's so childish and transparent. And if you call them on it, oh you are reading into and just over sensitive. Mmkay. Examples: Larla has done so well in daycare. The fact that she's around other kids all day and not just home with an adult has done wonders for her social skills. (Person knows you have a nanny.) Tom and I are so glad we moved to the suburbs. We just love having all the green space for the kids and can see how much happier they are! (Person knows you still live in the city with your kids in an apartment.) The possibilities are endless really. |
| Seems like some people really don't want to believe masks work. I haven't read this study but it's different from the Arkansas study cited 2 pages ago which did show causality and showed masks worked pretty definitively. YMMV. |
| Yep, wearing a good mask correctly does help protect you against covid. But in my family, the downsides of wearing masks outweigh the benefits to us. So we choose to not wear masks. Please leave us alone and do not try to shame us into wearing them. |
I feel very sorry for your psyche that you read a slight into everything. |
There are those who want everyone unmasked so their kids can see other kids' faces. I used to buy into that a lot more but I wonder if the challenges have been overblown at least a bit. A couple weeks ago my kid and their friend were making funny faces at each other. One child was masked. The other wasn't. The mask didn't hinder their game at all. They both laughed hysterically at each other. Eyes + hand gestures were enough to communicate in their game. |