Invited to shower but not wedding.
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Anonymous
| It's a gift grab. Don't go and don't send a gift. |
Anonymous
| Workplace shower is the only acceptable situation for this. |
Anonymous
| This is normal. The person throwing the shower is not the person deciding the guest list of the wedding. Go if you want, decline if you want. |