Don’t pay yourself on the back. Like walking, there is a wide range of when kids learn to read. It’s largely developmental, not academic. Of course up to a point. By 9 all kids should be reading fluently, but whether a kid can read fluently by 3-5 or 6-8 indicates nothing about their intelligence. |
| Not covid related. It’s about how public school sticks them on laptops from K onwards. They have zero attention spans now. We are screen free at home and it’s a struggle. |
I’m not patting myself on the back, I’m disputing the idea that children need “academic” pre-K in order to succeed, which is the post I was responding to. That is developmentally inappropriate for most children. |
The only time our kindergarten students are on devices is for mandatory testing. |
Everyone has returned to precovid. Only a select few are masking and taking precautions. The difference is you worked with your kids and many parents cannot or will not. And, the curriculum also is important as well as strong teachers. Mine was reading before K too but we worked with them and taught them. |
It's not developmentally inappropriate. And, you cannot complain that your kids aren't prepared and not consider the type of preparation they had. Kids can still play and have fun and learn at preschool. This anti-education stance is why kids struggle. The lack of homework for reenforcement, lack of reading at home and expecting schools to do it all. |
The reading issues are more strongly correlated with Lucy Calkins and the Whole Language crap. More became aware of reading gaps during Covid, but NAEP reading test results had been poor even before Covid. PP just above was lucky DC received Phonics-centered instruction, because many studies have shown that is what works for all kids. (dyslexic kids benefit most from Orton-Gillingham which itself is Phonics based). Listen to the "Sold a Story" podcast and then weep. An entire generation of teachers and students were mis-taught. |
Unless this “academic” preK is outdoors multiple hours daily, yes it is. Three and four year olds do not belong at desks for hours per day. There is not a single credible study that supports this as developmentally ideal. Kids can (and should) be read to at home regardless of what kind of preK they’re in. My child was well prepared without spending the years before elementary school sitting inside doing worksheets. |
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Stop blaming this on Covid. It's poor parenting. How else can you explain the poor performance among the wfh kids? The struggling parents that actually had to go work irl, sure give them a small pass. But I know many kids that went to bad schools and had parents working 12 hour jobs but still did excellent at school.
But blaming schools for not educating 0-10 year old kids? Any parent should obviously have the mental acuity to teach this content, i.e., homeschooling for a pandemic year or two. At least enough to not have their kids be delayed. Seriously, is there a single core subject that a parent would struggle at learning if they went back to elementary school? They should be able to teach it then. |
| Parents didn't learn to read well. They didn't help their kids much. Everyone blames it on covid but actually reading scores were quite low well before that. |
| No, some of my friends are very intelligent, hands on parents. But the lack of socialization of the parents during the new mom stage led to them being more isolated after the new mom stage as well. Their lack of socialization meant babies and toddlers didn’t socialize when the moms thought it wasn’t important. Not socializing meant the children had delays. Moms can’t be their everything. Sometimes babies copy each other. Sometimes moms copy each other. |
This is interesting, and has some merit. I don’t like the mom blaming, but I do agree that there must be some impact from a decrease in parents/babies interacting with other parents/babies during those early years. |
Uh. This isn’t the superiority you think it is. EBF babies don't take sippy cups at eight months and lots of COVID-era mothers EBF’d for antibody protection. This is a weird weird mother shaming post and I hope your “SIL” and “friend” distance themselves from your expertise… |
Your argument would be better if the baby had been EBF. Formula fed baby. |
This is the REASON public schools exist. To educate children, regardless of their parents ability to do so. The idea was to give every child a roughly equal playing field whether their parents were illiterate, non-English speaking, or educated and reading to them at home. We seem to have shifted and now parents are expected to do the nitty-gritty of educating at home while school is a holding pen where kids watch YouTube, take mindfulness breaks and play math games. This isn’t what I want my tax dollars to pay for. |