Middle Aged Women And Wandering Eye

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Let's say you're a man in this situation and want to take things further. What do you do or say? I'm roughly in OP's situation fairly often, maybe once or twice a week. I wasn't a big lady's man when I was younger but now I've got a bit of a silver fox thing going. I'm not sure how to actually talk to women in stores, at crosswalks, etc.

NP. Woman here. You should find an innocent topic to remark on or pose a question. The remark or question should be from the immediate surroundings:
"Oh, it's nice they carry these chocolate oranges this year, too!"
Then: "Do you shop here often? My daughter wanted me to get Christmas stockings."
And so on, picking up on her replies.

After a three-minute conversation, after she could see that you are not a creep, you can say: "I have enjoyed talking to you. I'd love to see you again, if you don't mind." Then she either gives uou her phone number or you give her yours.

Lol did you coach my ex? That's probably how she gave her AP her number

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Let's say you're a man in this situation and want to take things further. What do you do or say? I'm roughly in OP's situation fairly often, maybe once or twice a week. I wasn't a big lady's man when I was younger but now I've got a bit of a silver fox thing going. I'm not sure how to actually talk to women in stores, at crosswalks, etc.

NP. Woman here. You should find an innocent topic to remark on or pose a question. The remark or question should be from the immediate surroundings:
"Oh, it's nice they carry these chocolate oranges this year, too!"
Then: "Do you shop here often? My daughter wanted me to get Christmas stockings."
And so on, picking up on her replies.

After a three-minute conversation, after she could see that you are not a creep, you can say: "I have enjoyed talking to you. I'd love to see you again, if you don't mind." Then she either gives uou her phone number or you give her yours.

"Those pants really showcase what a fine ass you have!" Like that?

😆

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Let's say you're a man in this situation and want to take things further. What do you do or say? I'm roughly in OP's situation fairly often, maybe once or twice a week. I wasn't a big lady's man when I was younger but now I've got a bit of a silver fox thing going. I'm not sure how to actually talk to women in stores, at crosswalks, etc.

NP. Woman here. You should find an innocent topic to remark on or pose a question. The remark or question should be from the immediate surroundings:
"Oh, it's nice they carry these chocolate oranges this year, too!"
Then: "Do you shop here often? My daughter wanted me to get Christmas stockings."
And so on, picking up on her replies.

After a three-minute conversation, after she could see that you are not a creep, you can say: "I have enjoyed talking to you. I'd love to see you again, if you don't mind." Then she either gives uou her phone number or you give her yours.

Lol did you coach my ex? That's probably how she gave her AP her number

Lol. This thread is hilarious.

[Anonymous]

Middle age women have really nice asses. I don't know it's like they have written on their forehead take me I am soaked right now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Middle age women have really nice asses. I don't know it's like they have written on their forehead take me I am soaked right now.

I do love them dripping.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Middle age women have really nice asses. I don't know it's like they have written on their forehead take me I am soaked right now.

I agree. Those yoga pants and the jiggly cheeks

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:They were probably wondering what you were doing in World Market at noon on a Monday.

Seriously! “Look at this sweet hapless husband shopping for gifts”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is why women choose the bear, creep.

+1.

Some men are something else. This is why women wear biatch resting face. You cannot be a happy smiling woman without some man assuming that you are flirting. It's weird.

They were probably happy because they were Christmas shopping and they saw a man doing some of the same emotional labor work. And they thought the world was making progress.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You’re not very bright. People flirt all the time without any intention of going further.

As a reasonably cute woman, I can guarantee that if I walk into a room full of married men, I get looks and conversation starters. The immense majority are not out to proposition me. They want to spend a few minutes getting attention from an attractive member of the opposite sex while they wait for their kid’s activity or pick up stuff at Home Depot. It makes them feel happy, which is understandable.

Same thing here.

This is emotional cheating. You are a cheater.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your ego is not your amigo, Friend

AA saying…

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your 50, married, and looking at other women at the grocery store and posting about it on DCUM.

Is that normal married men behavior??

Yes

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is why women choose the bear, creep.

What's creepy about a handsome man getting attention?

2 thumbs down.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your 50, married, and looking at other women at the grocery store and posting about it on DCUM.

Is that normal married men behavior??

Yes

Sad

[Anonymous]

In this situation they were just all amazed to see a dad doing the stocking shopping!

[Anonymous]

Same thing at Michaels. I was there with my tween DDs and seemed to be getting looks. I don't wear a wedding ring (work reasons) so maybe they assumed I was a divorced dad.