There are plenty of examples if you read through this board. FA families who are members of pricy country clubs, who purchase brand new $100k+ vehicles, who take regular international vacations, who own second homes, whose own $4M primary homes, and so on. It really couldn’t be more obvious. |
Lol your evidence is unspecified anonymous comments on DCUM. Oooh boy time to get off the internet. |
You are being unreasonable if you want me to single out individuals on this board. Anyone who is informed on the parents and families at their school notices this stuff. We see this stuff happening at our school, as well as other parents posting about it on DCUM. |
Anonymous posts on an open internet message board are worthless. If you can’t back up your posts, they are just as worthless. No one can just take your word for it. At the very least, name your school. That might get you a bit of credibility. |
It is not just one school. It is the majority of them. |
Why should anyone believe you? |
Just look out for it at your own school. |
| Would a family with 2 children in private school with a HHI of $300k get any FA? |
Definitely. |
You’ve given no reason anyone should. |
Well, have you done the math? $300k is about $160-$175k after taxes. A $5k/month escrow payment is typical here. Utilities are expensive here and gas/elec/water can be $800-$1k a month. People on the like to drive while talking on their cell phones and cut people off and slam on the brakes, so car insurance with two teenagers is about $1k a month. Need me to go on? I’m glad this discussion shifted to people with range rovers, country club memberships and second homes that take international vacations (the fa apps ask those questions), because that’s a different issue than the dual income dmv family making $300k pre tax that is trying to give their kids something better than an overcrowded md public high school. |
| ^ so in my experience yes. Not a lot, but some help. |
| To what extent does each additional child add to the FA calculation? Is there a rule of thumb that generally applies? Affording $45k versus $90k versus $135k is very different. |
You are free to feel that way. But $10k is generally the amount that we donate every year. If I found out (and I wouldn't, but if I did) that the school offered $10k to a family with an HHI of $300k, my contributions would come to a screeching halt. |
People should know their full pay tuition dollars and donations are funding financial aid programs that are handing out money to the extremely wealthy. The schools fundraise on the idea that financial aid is like a charity. Look at the families receiving aid. It is just giving out money to whoever can creatively reduce their wealth on a financial aid application. These same families are vacationing in France, buying vacation homes, and getting new cars regularly. |