How to handle disgruntled online seller

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Anonymous wrote:Ebay isn't Nordstroms op why should the seller have to pay return shipping because you don't like it. They also paid ebay sellers fees on that. Donate the sweater and don't be a jerk.

Disagree- this is why sellers post their return policy which Op is adhering to. If seller isn’t willing to have returns, they should put no returns allowed.

This. I don't buy clothes from sellers who don't allow returns. Seller is trying to take advantage of that by drawing people in and then not following her own policy.

You are buying used clothing. Its not their fault it doesn't fit. Its not a store.

What does that have to do with the sellers own chosen return policy?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ebay isn't Nordstroms op why should the seller have to pay return shipping because you don't like it. They also paid ebay sellers fees on that. Donate the sweater and don't be a jerk.

Disagree- this is why sellers post their return policy which Op is adhering to. If seller isn’t willing to have returns, they should put no returns allowed.

This. I don't buy clothes from sellers who don't allow returns. Seller is trying to take advantage of that by drawing people in and then not following her own policy.

You are buying used clothing. Its not their fault it doesn't fit. Its not a store.

Yes, they are operating stores. Do you even know what people are talking about here?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Isn't the real issue "refunds" rather than "returns" ?

No the issue is that sellers have to pay shipping twice. So if something cost $7 each way, this seller didn’t make $0 on your return, she made -14

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Constantly shopping and returning is just dopamine seeking and remorse. If you do this, consider medication or lifestyle changes. It isn’t about the clothes - no one wants to deal with your pathology.

Black and white thinking is an indicator of pathology, a cluster B disorder.

Someone can buy and return something and it does not mean they are ‘constantly’ shopping and returning items

Anyone who is taking the time to beef with someone on ebay about a cheap piece of clothing is most likely a chronic returner, as are a lot of people commenting on the OP's post. This is a lifestyle for a lot of people. I work with one of them. Literally every purchase is an opportunity to overthink and then return. They obsess about return policies and literally count down the 30 days on things like large furniture items, obsessing over whether they will return a couch that has been sitting in their house for days. It is a sickness. Get some meds.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Constantly shopping and returning is just dopamine seeking and remorse. If you do this, consider medication or lifestyle changes. It isn’t about the clothes - no one wants to deal with your pathology.

Black and white thinking is an indicator of pathology, a cluster B disorder.

Someone can buy and return something and it does not mean they are ‘constantly’ shopping and returning items

Anyone who is taking the time to beef with someone on ebay about a cheap piece of clothing is most likely a chronic returner, as are a lot of people commenting on the OP's post. This is a lifestyle for a lot of people. I work with one of them. Literally every purchase is an opportunity to overthink and then return. They obsess about return policies and literally count down the 30 days on things like large furniture items, obsessing over whether they will return a couch that has been sitting in their house for days. It is a sickness. Get some meds.

Amen!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Constantly shopping and returning is just dopamine seeking and remorse. If you do this, consider medication or lifestyle changes. It isn’t about the clothes - no one wants to deal with your pathology.

Black and white thinking is an indicator of pathology, a cluster B disorder.

Someone can buy and return something and it does not mean they are ‘constantly’ shopping and returning items

Anyone who is taking the time to beef with someone on ebay about a cheap piece of clothing is most likely a chronic returner, as are a lot of people commenting on the OP's post. This is a lifestyle for a lot of people. I work with one of them. Literally every purchase is an opportunity to overthink and then return. They obsess about return policies and literally count down the 30 days on things like large furniture items, obsessing over whether they will return a couch that has been sitting in their house for days. It is a sickness. Get some meds.

Wow you are projecting quite a bit. Crazy

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Isn't the real issue "refunds" rather than "returns" ?

No the issue is that sellers have to pay shipping twice. So if something cost $7 each way, this seller didn’t make $0 on your return, she made -14

I don’t think you’re aware of how eBay works. The seller does not necessarily pay shipping. You have used eBay before, right?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ebay isn't Nordstroms op why should the seller have to pay return shipping because you don't like it. They also paid ebay sellers fees on that. Donate the sweater and don't be a jerk.

Disagree- this is why sellers post their return policy which Op is adhering to. If seller isn’t willing to have returns, they should put no returns allowed.

This. I don't buy clothes from sellers who don't allow returns. Seller is trying to take advantage of that by drawing people in and then not following her own policy.

You are buying used clothing. It’s not their fault it doesn't fit. Its not a store.

Lolz. Ok, I don’t think you’ve ever used eBay

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Isn't the real issue "refunds" rather than "returns" ?

No the issue is that sellers have to pay shipping twice. So if something cost $7 each way, this seller didn’t make $0 on your return, she made -14

I don’t think you’re aware of how eBay works. The seller does not necessarily pay shipping. You have used eBay before, right?

Yeah, but then buyers avoid the listing.