Christ almighty, people. Not everything has to have a punitive lesson. Not paying for his test is absurd. I'm sure he doesn't WANT to fail. |
In VA if you fail one of the 10 signs, in that portion, you fail. And some of those sign are silly ones that i've never seen in my entire life. It can be confusing. |
Exactly!! Everyone is acting like this kid is going to be an awful driver because he doesn't know the deer crossing sign. Like calm the F down |
I don't know any kid who failed the permit test. It's not hard.
And frankly, if your kid can't pass the permit test, he should not be on the road. |
Seems like you are the one who needs to calm down. Kid's going to be an awful driver because he is not motivated to learn as per OP's post. |
Girl you need to get laid. You are every negative post here |
Nice |
My child can handle driving. They just learned how to do it in a different way - in the more collaborative way they learn most things. My kid is the dyslexic mentioned above who passed both the written and road tests on the first try. They are an excellent driver. |
Give him confidence by reminding him that the questions on the test are randomly generated. Sometimes you get all the easy questions, sometimes you pull a test with enough of the 'trip up' questions that you fail. One of these times he's going to pull the easy test and pass.
But also, yes read the whole book. Don't take him back until he passes a practice test at home. Then pray for a good randomization! |
Sometimes it is hard; sometimes it isn't. My DC, although very bright and a NMSF, failed it once. He remembered the ones he missed and quizzed me on them, and I couldn't answer them - obscure and strange questions. The second time, he came out after only a few minutes, having flown through it and passed, laughing because the second time the questions he pulled were so much easier and straight forward than the first version. Don't pat yourself on the back for drawing all the easy questions. |
I had our teen do the 30 Hours of drivers ed classes first and that made the drivers permit test very easy. They go over the material on blocks of relevance and offer daily mini tests. They also discuss modern approach to teaching teens is emphasizing driving safely and not taking foolish risks rather than remembering many random rules. |
And yet, he clearly doesn't WANT to pass enough to study more/differently than he has been. |
DP, the other poster should have been kinder, but he/she is right. Nothing in the DC (or VA/MD) driving manual is complicated or anything beyond basic safety information. If you don’t know how many feet to start signaling, how long it takes to brake in regular/wet/snowy conditions, what traffic signs mean, or other basic information contained in the manual I would suggest that you brush up on it. BTW the Dutch reach just refers to using the hand across your body from the door to open the car door so you are turning your body to check behind you for incoming traffic. We have a serious automobile safety issue across this country, and a major reason for this is because people act like because they passed a basic safety test when they were 16 they are “good drivers.” We should be making people test every 2-5 years, and I think we all would be very alarmed at the number of people who don’t even understand basic safety information. To the OP: your teen has failed the knowledge test three times. I’m not going to blame you or him, but it might be time to put this on the back burner for a year or two and outline a strategy for studying the manual. What works best for him in school? What tools are most helpful for him? Does he succeed with flash cards? Repetition? Practical example? There are tons of options, and ways to make it more interactive. You now have a year to outline a plan, which should be plenty of time to develop and implement a strategy that will put him in a better position to succeed. |
I would feel terrible if I enabled a kid who was showing signs of inability to get a driver's license and s/he killed somebody or got themselves killed. No A for effort here. |
Maybe he doesn't know how. Maybe he isn't learning the material well. Maybe he is a bad test taker. There are several other options behond "he doesn't WANT" to pass. Give the kid a god damn break. |