What can American women learn from foreign women?

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Right! Just ask John Bobbitt what he thinks about South American women.

Such a stupid take. Latin American women are lovely and fun.

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Anonymous wrote:How to cook

So true. Also to appreciate their men.

I appreciate men if there are things to appreciate. I don't appreciate a man just because he exists.

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Anonymous wrote:How to cook

So true. Also to appreciate their men.

Haha that’s funny.

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Foreign women have as much contempt for their men as American women do. They learn to hide it because they have to.

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Anonymous wrote:To avoid men who want to split dates 50/50.

You could make more money on OnlyFans

Well I’m only a 7 on a good day and DH makes a ton of money, so I’d say no, OF would not have been more lucrative.

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A distinctive bad behavior of American women is fitness-testing, also know as "shit-testing".

https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=shit%20test

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That boobs aren’t offensive

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The hope is the husband is an upright guy who has a good job, cares for his family, is funny and fit. The ideas below are for women married to such men:

Don’t unnecessarily guilt, berate, shame or nag your husband (unless you suffer from a personality disorder out of your control). Avoid absorbing the misandry that’s so prevalent in American society today, basically attributing fault for everything at men’s feet. Stay thin. Be fun and kind. Love sex. If you’re husband is being am azzhole, call him out but don’t hold a grudge for 2 years. Let that sht go. Don’t weaponize sex.

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Anonymous wrote:The hope is the husband is an upright guy who has a good job, cares for his family, is funny and fit. The ideas below are for women married to such men:

Don’t unnecessarily guilt, berate, shame or nag your husband (unless you suffer from a personality disorder out of your control). Avoid absorbing the misandry that’s so prevalent in American society today, basically attributing fault for everything at men’s feet. Stay thin. Be fun and kind. Love sex. If you’re husband is being am azzhole, call him out but don’t hold a grudge for 2 years. Let that sht go. Don’t weaponize sex.

And then you too can keep the kind of man who needs you to swallow that.

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Anonymous wrote:The hope is the husband is an upright guy who has a good job, cares for his family, is funny and fit. The ideas below are for women married to such men:

Don’t unnecessarily guilt, berate, shame or nag your husband (unless you suffer from a personality disorder out of your control). Avoid absorbing the misandry that’s so prevalent in American society today, basically attributing fault for everything at men’s feet. Stay thin. Be fun and kind. Love sex. If you’re husband is being am azzhole, call him out but don’t hold a grudge for 2 years. Let that sht go. Don’t weaponize sex.

A lot of European women are masters at weaponized sex. Or at least using it to manipulate men.

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https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1179902.page

From today

Foreign women would never ask a question like this

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Anonymous wrote:They can learn to take better care of themselves:
- Reduce or eliminate alcoholic beverages
- Wear no-makeup makeup
- Don’t tan
- Move more , not just exercise but more more in general
- Eat a healthy diet
- Don’t walk/drive and eat/drink
- Speak softly

You must be thinking of Asian women. European women tan and drink a lot.

Incorrect. We don't really drink and there is major social shaming for women who abuse alcohol or get drunk. As a woman in Europe, you don't get drunk or fat. Both are unacceptable.
To be fair, I haven't seen a lot of Hispanic or Black women here getting drunk either. It's usually the white women who abuse alcohol - see below for research. And I don't think it's happy drunk either, it's just a coping mechanism.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/national/wp/2016/12/23/nine-charts-that-show-how-white-women-are-drinking-themselves-to-death/

https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2021/06/09/1003980966/women-now-drink-as-much-as-men-and-suffer-health-effects-more-quickly

LOL you clearly spent no time near pubs in working class neighborhoods in Britain on a Friday night. Or at cheap Costa Brava resorts.

1. British aren’t really European

When people say europe, mostly they are referring to the mainland

2. People for sure aren’t thinking about British people in the 20 pages of this thread

3. British and American convergence on many metrics is larger than British-mainland convergence

Look at obesity rates and life expectancy. On these metrics British and Americans are closer than either is to say France

If British people “aren’t really European” then what continent do they “really” belong to? This is such a ridiculous argument.

My DH is British, and I just told him that apparently, someone thinks that British people aren't really European, and he gave me the a look, like "WTF"? lol

American women definitely should not learn about geography or who drinks the most from European women.

There used to be a saying in Britain that (approximately) "the Orient begins at the Channel" and Austrians have a saying that "Asia begins at the Landstrasse".

Ding ding ding

This is an educated pp that clearly has read a lot and or traveled

It’s similar to this bit by philosopher Slavoj zizek on “what is Balkan?”

https://youtu.be/3rpEQmtkstM?si=GPavWRJeADTrGx4i

Nobody cares about you guys rambling on about philosophers and geography BS. Let's list the countries with women that blow US women out of the water. I'll go first.

Colombia- If looks could kill, they'd be dynamite. When they're talking to you, it's as if they're singing a sweet song. They also know a thing or two about adversity and personal responsibility.

1. Are you a guy?

2. Have you spent time in Colombia?

I was there for half a year all over - bogota, medillin, Cali, Cartagena

The median Colombian woman is 5’2 max frump that’s also very materialistic

So you get eastern euro / Chinese levels of “bag chasing” without the legs and eyes of eastern euro women

🤮

https://www.wsj.com/world/americas/americans-looking-for-love-are-getting-killed-by-gangs-in-colombia-b12d7671?st=scqvmjxjglmrxhn&reflink=article_copyURL_share

From wsj this weekend

“Americans Looking for Love Are Getting Killed by Gangs in Colombia”

🤣

“Xiong is one of at least eight Americans who died in Colombia’s second-largest city in November and December amid dozens of cases involving male tourists who were held captive and robbed, often after meeting women on dating apps, Medellín officials said. The deaths, some after the victims were drugged, and a spike in attacks against foreigners led the U.S. Embassy in Colombia to issue an alert this month urging caution for U.S. citizens meeting people through online dating platforms.”

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To handle STD symptoms as well as Melania.

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Anonymous wrote:They can learn to take better care of themselves:
- Reduce or eliminate alcoholic beverages
- Wear no-makeup makeup
- Don’t tan
- Move more , not just exercise but more more in general
- Eat a healthy diet
- Don’t walk/drive and eat/drink
- Speak softly

You must be thinking of Asian women. European women tan and drink a lot.

Incorrect. We don't really drink and there is major social shaming for women who abuse alcohol or get drunk. As a woman in Europe, you don't get drunk or fat. Both are unacceptable.
To be fair, I haven't seen a lot of Hispanic or Black women here getting drunk either. It's usually the white women who abuse alcohol - see below for research. And I don't think it's happy drunk either, it's just a coping mechanism.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/national/wp/2016/12/23/nine-charts-that-show-how-white-women-are-drinking-themselves-to-death/

https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2021/06/09/1003980966/women-now-drink-as-much-as-men-and-suffer-health-effects-more-quickly

LOL you clearly spent no time near pubs in working class neighborhoods in Britain on a Friday night. Or at cheap Costa Brava resorts.

1. British aren’t really European

When people say europe, mostly they are referring to the mainland

2. People for sure aren’t thinking about British people in the 20 pages of this thread

3. British and American convergence on many metrics is larger than British-mainland convergence

Look at obesity rates and life expectancy. On these metrics British and Americans are closer than either is to say France

If British people “aren’t really European” then what continent do they “really” belong to? This is such a ridiculous argument.

My DH is British, and I just told him that apparently, someone thinks that British people aren't really European, and he gave me the a look, like "WTF"? lol

American women definitely should not learn about geography or who drinks the most from European women.

There used to be a saying in Britain that (approximately) "the Orient begins at the Channel" and Austrians have a saying that "Asia begins at the Landstrasse".

Ding ding ding

This is an educated pp that clearly has read a lot and or traveled

It’s similar to this bit by philosopher Slavoj zizek on “what is Balkan?”

https://youtu.be/3rpEQmtkstM?si=GPavWRJeADTrGx4i

Nobody cares about you guys rambling on about philosophers and geography BS. Let's list the countries with women that blow US women out of the water. I'll go first.

Colombia- If looks could kill, they'd be dynamite. When they're talking to you, it's as if they're singing a sweet song. They also know a thing or two about adversity and personal responsibility.

1. Are you a guy?

2. Have you spent time in Colombia?

I was there for half a year all over - bogota, medillin, Cali, Cartagena

The median Colombian woman is 5’2 max frump that’s also very materialistic

So you get eastern euro / Chinese levels of “bag chasing” without the legs and eyes of eastern euro women

🤮

https://www.wsj.com/world/americas/americans-looking-for-love-are-getting-killed-by-gangs-in-colombia-b12d7671?st=scqvmjxjglmrxhn&reflink=article_copyURL_share

From wsj this weekend

“Americans Looking for Love Are Getting Killed by Gangs in Colombia”

🤣

“Xiong is one of at least eight Americans who died in Colombia’s second-largest city in November and December amid dozens of cases involving male tourists who were held captive and robbed, often after meeting women on dating apps, Medellín officials said. The deaths, some after the victims were drugged, and a spike in attacks against foreigners led the U.S. Embassy in Colombia to issue an alert this month urging caution for U.S. citizens meeting people through online dating platforms.”

NP. Did you serous find it funny that American men are being killed by gangs? You are one very vile, disgusting and miserable human being. There is nothing funny about it.

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My DH is a first generation immigrant from a poor country, and I definitely felt more attracted to him than American men. He is extremely hardworking (worked through college and graduate school), very humble and masculine. IME many American men are not very hardworking, complain a lot and aren’t generally ambitious. My DH’s culture would never allow a woman to pay for a date, for example, and I dated men before him who expected me to split the bill or complained about women using them.