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Is Takoma Park not part of the down county consortium for HS? Many of those kids have long commutes. Private school is an easy target, but you're not thinking too hard on this. |
Your kids are going to resent you. |
It’s a huge benefit later in life to be able to say that you are the product of public schools, especially if you get involved in politics. |
That's not what the research bears out. https://www.amazon.com/Price-Privilege-Advantage-Generation-Disconnected/dp/006059585X Look, I get it, our primitive brain is focused on providing our kids with all of the advantages to survive and pass on our genes. It's just worthwhile to examine whether the things we're valuing and the environment we're choosing are actually accomplishing what we hope. |
| I live in Silver Spring (couldn't afford Takoma Park home prices or private school for 2 kids, lol). There are a couple Catholic schools nearby and families purposely buy in the surrounding neighborhoods to be close to the school. How is that ruining the neighborhoods? I seriously don't understand your logic. The other (few) families I know who have kids in private all started at the public schools (and often the other siblings still attend public), but for one reason or another the kid just was not getting what they needed there. A couple moved during the pandemic because the Catholic school was actually in person while MCPS was still virtual, and just decided to stay for stability. |
Haha, good one |
It just entirely depends on the environment at that particular school. I hated my experience at my selective all-girls private k-12, mostly because it was unfriendly and not at all nurturing. I was very inclined to send DC to public. My DH loved his private school experience and advocated strongly for it for our DC. It's been a very welcoming and warm environment for our children. Glad I let my DH talk me into it. |
Don’t go- I just got here and totally get what you’re saying and feel the same way! And this is the only place you can vent. And it IS the case that parents fleeing public schools doesn’t bode well for the neighborhood or the school. It’s the same in Chevy Chase and Bethesda though… What about out in Gaithersburg and Derwood etc- those families mostly go to their neighborhood schools, I bet. It has something to do with class/race- I don’t know what though! |
This didn’t strike me as anti-Semitic. This is just an example of what happens when many neighborhood families choose- for whatever reason!- to go private. You need most families who live around the school to care about the school! |
| Another interesting example- not sure whether or not it supports OP- would be Woodmoor. This neighborhood close to TP is full of kids- about half of whom go to the local Catholic school and half who go public. It’s interesting bc both schools are right there in this kind of insular neighborhood full of kids. |
+1 |
You go ahead and “be the change.” The quality of my kid’s education is more important than living up to your fantasy. Bottom line is, we’re not going to sacrifice our kids for the potential benefit of kids coming 20 years later. |
We haven’t had a president educated in a public high school in the 21st century. |
Correct. BTW Biden attended private school from K-12, including when he was “poor” in early childhood (he grew up in the richest neighborhood of his hometown, it is filled with houses that are insanely nice & look like castles). He proceeded to send his sons & daughter to private school from k through college despite when was underwater on his houses & barely LMC in terms of incomes & assets. He hates public schools and has never set foot in one. |
So you agree that being a product of the public school system is a huge asset, politically-speaking? J.D. Vance went from no political career whatsoever to the U.S. Senate largely based on his public school upbringing and hardscrabble mythos. I’ll bet he never once mentioned Yale during the campaign. |