Love is Blind Season 3 - Dallas

[Anonymous]

^^The guys could easily have said, oh no that didn't happen/ Telling that they didn't.

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Anonymous wrote:^^The guys could easily have said, oh no that didn't happen/ Telling that they didn't.

I don't think they would have known either way. Sounds like everyone was drunk then jumped in Ubers.

The person who would "know" is this supposed girl....Cole is B list famous now so if she is looking for her 15 minutes, she could corroborate Zay's story- IF she exists.

[Anonymous]

I think Cole and Z are a terrible couple. He is way too immature but, I think, she is seriously damaged.

IMO, The "cuties" clip made her look horrible.

[Anonymous]

The married couples will get divorced. They don't appear to be in love, despite their shallow declarations. They are all fame seekers. It is laughable when Vanessa and Nick made fun of the guy who used the eyedrops-- saying he was there only to be on TV-- aren't Nick and Vanessa on this show because they want to be on TV? What hypocrites!

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Anonymous wrote:I think the cities scenes was completely ambiguous and could be exactly how they each represented it as seen through their own lens.

The real deciding factor would be whether he actually asked someone for their number at the bachelor party because one of them is lying about that.

I honestly believe him. The guys' bachelor party involved no girls. If he had done anything like that one of the other guys would have sold him out that they had gone out afterwards. All of them looked confused.

Another thing that REALLY stood out to me at the wedding AND at the reunion was how Zay was not particularly emotional EXCEPT being nervous about walking down the aisle. She was nervous, like she had a big moment coming up. That was 1000% a planned and rehearsed speech. At the reunion he is saying she's lying and she's not even getting that upset. He is on one side crying, and his emotion came off extraordinarily genuine to me both day of wedding and reunion, and she is coldly just burying him deeper. Is someone who's confidence is completely shattered able to cooly dig the knife in again and again and again? In my opinion no.

I honestly believe Zay knew she wasn't going to marry him, decided she wanted to be the Deepti of the season and executed a pretty calculated plan to make it happen. I was pretty upset honestly after watching the finale being really triggered by just how much her behavior is like an immediate family member who is extremely emotionally abusive while also being extremely successful and no one outside our family would know she is that way. Cole is not a perfect person, but she is the abusive person in that relationship. And in a calculated and intentional way that was honestly really distressing to watch.

Of course you believe him. I don't. And Brennon didn't seem to either.

Brennon straight up said he got so blasted he remembers nothing. So his opinion is driven entirely by Alexa's beliefs which are based on Zay's stories. The cuties clip makes it clear that her stories are inaccurate AT BEST.

I believe him because I have a BPD parent and have never related to anyone more than Cole at that reunion. I know what it looks like when someone is being told their own memory is a lie.

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Anonymous wrote:What do you all think about Raven and SK continuing to date?

I think it's nice in theory but see too many differences for them to make it for the long haul.

I posted several pages back that I hoped we would find out at the reunion that they were dating. I think they seem great together. Mature, not rushing it, not letting any of the foolishness that happened on the show affect their experience or outcome. Also, they seem equally yoked and genuine about their feelings for each other.

I'm really surprised how much I needed up ended up liking Raven and Raven and SK together. However, as much as I like Raven and think she's very pretty, I hated her reunion look. hated the dress, her makeup, and her weave plus the way it was styled.

Colleen and Matt seem really in love. I wonder if he's had any other angry outbursts since the show ended.

Zanab was gorgeous at the reunion. I don't get how Cole was so enamored by Collen's looks (very average) when Zanab is just stunning! I can see how her personality is a bit of a drag though. I do wonder if IRL she might be a little more fun/lighthearted and maybe the way we saw her was a result of Cole triggering her insecurities, and it was hard for her to let that go for the rest of the show.

Bartese is an idiot (not because he didn't marry Nancy, that's actually the best decision he made the entire show). I was so hoping we would see Nancy's brother sucker punch Bartese. Or her mom Slap him like Wil smacked Chris. lol

I can't figure out Alexa and Brennon. They are not giving off 'madly in new love' vibes like Matt and Colleen.

I agree I didn’t like Raven’s hair style either but I don’t think it was a weave. You can tell by her current stories with close ups. She has hair texture exactly as mine. When I straighten it it’s the exact same length. Funny how people assume the black girl is wearing weave when clearly Nancy and Colleen were clearly wearing hair clip ins.

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Anonymous wrote:I think the cities scenes was completely ambiguous and could be exactly how they each represented it as seen through their own lens.

The real deciding factor would be whether he actually asked someone for their number at the bachelor party because one of them is lying about that.

I honestly believe him. The guys' bachelor party involved no girls. If he had done anything like that one of the other guys would have sold him out that they had gone out afterwards. All of them looked confused.

Another thing that REALLY stood out to me at the wedding AND at the reunion was how Zay was not particularly emotional EXCEPT being nervous about walking down the aisle. She was nervous, like she had a big moment coming up. That was 1000% a planned and rehearsed speech. At the reunion he is saying she's lying and she's not even getting that upset. He is on one side crying, and his emotion came off extraordinarily genuine to me both day of wedding and reunion, and she is coldly just burying him deeper. Is someone who's confidence is completely shattered able to cooly dig the knife in again and again and again? In my opinion no.

I honestly believe Zay knew she wasn't going to marry him, decided she wanted to be the Deepti of the season and executed a pretty calculated plan to make it happen. I was pretty upset honestly after watching the finale being really triggered by just how much her behavior is like an immediate family member who is extremely emotionally abusive while also being extremely successful and no one outside our family would know she is that way. Cole is not a perfect person, but she is the abusive person in that relationship. And in a calculated and intentional way that was honestly really distressing to watch.

I think Zanab definitely has issues, but she did not purposefully set out to be "the Deepti of season 3". The seasons were filmed back to back, so season 2 hadn't aired before season 3 filmed. https://www.bustle.com/entertainment/love-is-blind-season-3-filming-timeline

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think the cities scenes was completely ambiguous and could be exactly how they each represented it as seen through their own lens.

The real deciding factor would be whether he actually asked someone for their number at the bachelor party because one of them is lying about that.

I honestly believe him. The guys' bachelor party involved no girls. If he had done anything like that one of the other guys would have sold him out that they had gone out afterwards. All of them looked confused.

Another thing that REALLY stood out to me at the wedding AND at the reunion was how Zay was not particularly emotional EXCEPT being nervous about walking down the aisle. She was nervous, like she had a big moment coming up. That was 1000% a planned and rehearsed speech. At the reunion he is saying she's lying and she's not even getting that upset. He is on one side crying, and his emotion came off extraordinarily genuine to me both day of wedding and reunion, and she is coldly just burying him deeper. Is someone who's confidence is completely shattered able to cooly dig the knife in again and again and again? In my opinion no.

I honestly believe Zay knew she wasn't going to marry him, decided she wanted to be the Deepti of the season and executed a pretty calculated plan to make it happen. I was pretty upset honestly after watching the finale being really triggered by just how much her behavior is like an immediate family member who is extremely emotionally abusive while also being extremely successful and no one outside our family would know she is that way. Cole is not a perfect person, but she is the abusive person in that relationship. And in a calculated and intentional way that was honestly really distressing to watch.

Of course you believe him. I don't. And Brennon didn't seem to either.

Brennon straight up said he got so blasted he remembers nothing. So his opinion is driven entirely by Alexa's beliefs which are based on Zay's stories. The cuties clip makes it clear that her stories are inaccurate AT BEST.

I believe him because I have a BPD parent and have never related to anyone more than Cole at that reunion. I know what it looks like when someone is being told their own memory is a lie.

Interestingly they were saying that to each other. But you only relate to one of them. It’s fair because it’s based on your personal experiences. Those of us who’ve had men question what we’re eating or compare us to other women have a very different reaction.

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Anonymous wrote:I think the cities scenes was completely ambiguous and could be exactly how they each represented it as seen through their own lens.

The real deciding factor would be whether he actually asked someone for their number at the bachelor party because one of them is lying about that.

I completely agree. I think Zanab believes she is telling the truth about Cole's comments about what she's eating. Perception is reality. She's insecure given what has transpired between them so if he makes any comment, she hears "you're fat and need to lose weight." I don't believe Cole said anything to intentionally be hurtful or critical. At the end of the day, they were a bad match. I am curious about who is lying about the bachelor party.

I am disappointed that Matt wasn't called out for his explosive anger episodes. Watching Colleen at the reunion was like watching a hostage video with pre-rehearsed lines..."I'm so happy. I'm very happy. I love him so much. We're happy." She looked incredibly uncomfortable and the way he was hovering over her was creepy.

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Anonymous wrote:^^The guys could easily have said, oh no that didn't happen/ Telling that they didn't.

I don't think they would have known either way. Sounds like everyone was drunk then jumped in Ubers.

The person who would "know" is this supposed girl....Cole is B list famous now so if she is looking for her 15 minutes, she could corroborate Zay's story- IF she exists.

I don't think they would run to Cole's defense. The women are pretty close and none of them wanted to piss off the women.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I think the cities scenes was completely ambiguous and could be exactly how they each represented it as seen through their own lens.

The real deciding factor would be whether he actually asked someone for their number at the bachelor party because one of them is lying about that.

I completely agree. I think Zanab believes she is telling the truth about Cole's comments about what she's eating. Perception is reality. She's insecure given what has transpired between them so if he makes any comment, she hears "you're fat and need to lose weight." I don't believe Cole said anything to intentionally be hurtful or critical. At the end of the day, they were a bad match. I am curious about who is lying about the bachelor party.

I am disappointed that Matt wasn't called out for his explosive anger episodes. Watching Colleen at the reunion was like watching a hostage video with pre-rehearsed lines..."I'm so happy. I'm very happy. I love him so much. We're happy." She looked incredibly uncomfortable and the way he was hovering over her was creepy.

How did they not bring his behavior up? None of that was ok.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I think the cities scenes was completely ambiguous and could be exactly how they each represented it as seen through their own lens.

The real deciding factor would be whether he actually asked someone for their number at the bachelor party because one of them is lying about that.

I completely agree. I think Zanab believes she is telling the truth about Cole's comments about what she's eating. Perception is reality. She's insecure given what has transpired between them so if he makes any comment, she hears "you're fat and need to lose weight." I don't believe Cole said anything to intentionally be hurtful or critical. At the end of the day, they were a bad match. I am curious about who is lying about the bachelor party.

I am disappointed that Matt wasn't called out for his explosive anger episodes. Watching Colleen at the reunion was like watching a hostage video with pre-rehearsed lines..."I'm so happy. I'm very happy. I love him so much. We're happy." She looked incredibly uncomfortable and the way he was hovering over her was creepy.

You're right, he was so controlling and no one called him out. Boo.

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Anonymous wrote:I feel a little bad for Colleen and Matt, because they're basically this season's Barnetts to Alexa and Brennon's Lauren and Cameron. Nobody cares about them or thinks they will last, so all the attention is on Alexa and Brennon. Who are damn cute together.

Colleen must have really low standards to say yes to Matt. They never looked like a couple in love, even at the reunion. Alexa and Brennan are so cute/perfect together!

Absolutely impossible to see what draws her to him. He's so hick-ish, with a terrible personality. He's basically the Amber this time, without the hotness. Either she's desperate or just trying to monetize the relationship.

I was shocked by her extreme change in demeanor at the reunion. Her whole personality was different- lost the friendliness, bubbly personality. I never liked him from the beginning and hes a walking red flag. I hope they split up soon.

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Anonymous wrote:I feel a little bad for Colleen and Matt, because they're basically this season's Barnetts to Alexa and Brennon's Lauren and Cameron. Nobody cares about them or thinks they will last, so all the attention is on Alexa and Brennon. Who are damn cute together.

Colleen must have really low standards to say yes to Matt. They never looked like a couple in love, even at the reunion. Alexa and Brennan are so cute/perfect together!

Absolutely impossible to see what draws her to him. He's so hick-ish, with a terrible personality. He's basically the Amber this time, without the hotness. Either she's desperate or just trying to monetize the relationship.

I was shocked by her extreme change in demeanor at the reunion. Her whole personality was different- lost the friendliness, bubbly personality. I never liked him from the beginning and hes a walking red flag. I hope they split up soon.

PP you responded to here. I will say, though I don't get it, it's possible there was lots of good stuff that was edited out and we mostly saw only the drunken bad behavior.

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Anonymous wrote:I think the cities scenes was completely ambiguous and could be exactly how they each represented it as seen through their own lens.

The real deciding factor would be whether he actually asked someone for their number at the bachelor party because one of them is lying about that.

I honestly believe him. The guys' bachelor party involved no girls. If he had done anything like that one of the other guys would have sold him out that they had gone out afterwards. All of them looked confused.

Another thing that REALLY stood out to me at the wedding AND at the reunion was how Zay was not particularly emotional EXCEPT being nervous about walking down the aisle. She was nervous, like she had a big moment coming up. That was 1000% a planned and rehearsed speech. At the reunion he is saying she's lying and she's not even getting that upset. He is on one side crying, and his emotion came off extraordinarily genuine to me both day of wedding and reunion, and she is coldly just burying him deeper. Is someone who's confidence is completely shattered able to cooly dig the knife in again and again and again? In my opinion no.

I honestly believe Zay knew she wasn't going to marry him, decided she wanted to be the Deepti of the season and executed a pretty calculated plan to make it happen. I was pretty upset honestly after watching the finale being really triggered by just how much her behavior is like an immediate family member who is extremely emotionally abusive while also being extremely successful and no one outside our family would know she is that way. Cole is not a perfect person, but she is the abusive person in that relationship. And in a calculated and intentional way that was honestly really distressing to watch.

Of course you believe him. I don't. And Brennon didn't seem to either.

Brennon straight up said he got so blasted he remembers nothing. So his opinion is driven entirely by Alexa's beliefs which are based on Zay's stories. The cuties clip makes it clear that her stories are inaccurate AT BEST.

I believe him because I have a BPD parent and have never related to anyone more than Cole at that reunion. I know what it looks like when someone is being told their own memory is a lie.

Interestingly they were saying that to each other. But you only relate to one of them. It’s fair because it’s based on your personal experiences. Those of us who’ve had men question what we’re eating or compare us to other women have a very different reaction.

I went into the reunion thinking that her insecurities were leading her to interpret his comments in the worst possible way. That they were always speaking over each other, not understanding the root of what they were saying. And as a result they were getting frustrated and upset. And that was bringing out immaturity and childishness in Cole (shooting nerf guns to lighten up the moment) and passive aggressiveness in her. I actually wrote to a friend of mine before yesterday's episodes that I thought they were the only couple where both parties had good intentions (IMO, alexa is checked out, matt is an abuser, bartise is bartise, and SK I thought was disingenuous but changed my opinion about them post reunion). I'm only saying that I did not think Zanab was evil going into the last episode drop AT ALL.

That cuties scene to me was a CLEAR indicator that she is comfortable lying.