She’s too immature and self-absorbed for a serious relationship. He’s a like golden retriever, a little silly but good heart. I liked when he was pushing Colleen for more depth in their communication. I think he has a lot of potential. |
I find her very sketchy and perceive her to be high drama and like someone who is carrying a lot of baggage they still need to work through. |
I think they speak different love languages, and his lack of gushing brings out her insecurities. They both perceive each other as standoffish. |
I was wide eyed when Bartise was having his drink chat about how Raven is a “smoke show”. WTF, dude? Haven’t you been alive enough to know that your fiancé wants to hear that you think all the other women are trash? |
Raven is cold and boring, want to fast forward whenever she’s on screen. |
The young guys, Cole and Bartise, are so shallow. They are still hyper focused on looks and hotness, like most 20something guys. Cole is attracted to Colleen and Bartise to Raven despite being smart enough to rule them out due to personalities and incompatibilities in the pod. So dumb.
Agree with PPs that Alexa and Brennon are the only real viable couple in the group. |
She just strikes me as deeply insecure. Most of the women on the show strike me as insecure, tbh, but I think she wins. |
Aren’t they on the show to get over their shallow relationships? |
I don’t get that at all. I think she believes she’s too good for SK but wanted to continue on the show. |
Most people who believe they are “too good” for someone are deeply insecure. So that fits. |
It's human nature to be attracted to someone who'd look good with you. Cole and Colleen would make a super attractive couple. I think Bartise overestimates his attractiveness. |
He absolutely does. I find most of the other men to be more physically attractive and hearing him go on about how hot he is is embarrassing for him. Raven is more attractive than him but she gives off an insecure, cold vibe and she does not come off as mature enough to be married or even in a healthy functional relationship. |
I agree. SK is attractive imo, physically more attractive than Bartise so I’m not sure what she and bartise are going on about saying they are the “hot ones” |
Colleen is not cute though. She looks 40. |
Okay, I haven't dated men in over 20 years and am married to a woman... Do men really say things like, "you have to go through me to get to her" (SK) and other possessive things? I can't remember other specific examples. Also, do the women like this macho behavior? Even if the men are joking around, there is some truth to it or they wouldn't say it at all. |